HH quote: “When I go out, I’ma go out shootin’; I don’t mean when I die, I mean when I go out to the club stoopid!”
Alrighty…this is going to be fun. It’s always great when people disagree with me! 
OK, so it was said that my statement that guys only talk to girls in clubs because they want to be “more than friends” was untrue. And the response was, quote: “I speak to guys all the time at clubs and bars with absolutely no intention of dating them! Sometimes, a guy is just very entertaining.”
Now, it’s interesting because this is another key example of where girls and guys are very different. My last comment was related to guys approaching girls; not vice versa. I knew the opposite is true when a girl might approach a guy (which rarely happens anyway). I’m sure you can ask MANY girls, and they would probably tell you, “Yes”, they talk to a bunch of guys with no intentions of anything further besides “good conversation” and perhaps some “entertainment”. My lil’ sis’ does the SAME thing to guys…she’s so nice and smiley, and friendly that for whatever reason, these guys think they have a chance!
Alrighty boys, I taught the girls something in yesterday’s entry, now it’s time for the boyz to learn a lesson (girls, you’ll be happy I’ve clarified this as well!) – Just because a girl is talking and quite possibly flirting with you, does NOT mean she likes you! You might just be very ‘entertaining’! 
I decided I would ask a coupla’ guys this simple question (just to prove the difference further): “If you walk up to a girl you don’t know and start talking to her, do you want to be ‘just friends’”? I asked it with a very serious face. Here are the results:
- First response: (The guy BURSTS OUT laughing for a good 15s) “No WAY!” (Keeps laughing)
- Second response: “Why would I wanna’ to do that?” (With a seriously confused look on his face…)
- Third response: “No?! What guy would answer otherwise? Unless maybe he was gay…?”
Exactly. I didn’t need to ask any more guys. Girls, go ask any guy that question…unless he’s trying to hook up with you [and pretend he's the sensitive caring-type], you should get one of the above answers! 
What’s scary to me is, I tend to believe that I’m fairly entertaining most of the time. Thankfully, I NEVER assume a girl likes me for EXACTLY this reason (you never know!!). On the flip side, I guess this is why I never make a move unless I’m 110% certain there’s obvious interest. No, I don’t take subtle hints and I don’t take obvious hints. Just come out and say what you have to say! Unfortunately, girls rarely come out and say these things…although a few have. I do realize I have missed numerous opportunities because of this…’rejection phobia’ I guess you could call it! Ah well…life goes on!