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		<title>Uniterra Leave for Change Volunteer Project in Nepal</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Mar 2009 00:05:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ian Selvarajah</dc:creator>
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What is &#8220;Leave for Change&#8221;?
<p>Leave for Change is a subprogram of Uniterra, one of Canada&#8217;s leading international volunteer programs. The program offers individuals and companies the opportunity to contribute towards the achievement of the Millennium Development Goals (MDGs). While Uniterra offers longer term projects, the Leave for Change program is unique in that [...]]]></description>
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<h2>What is &#8220;Leave for Change&#8221;?</h2>
<p>Leave for Change is a subprogram of Uniterra, one of Canada&#8217;s leading international volunteer programs. The program offers individuals and companies the opportunity to contribute towards the achievement of the Millennium Development Goals (MDGs). While Uniterra offers longer term projects, the Leave for Change program is unique in that it offers <strong>shorter projects that last 2-4 weeks</strong>. These are well suited for professionals who may not be able to take leaves of absence, but would like to offer their expertise as a volunteer. For more details on how the program works for employers and employees and how you can get involved, please visit the Uniterra website at <a href="http://www.uniterra.org">www.uniterra.org</a>.</p>
<h2>Can someone make a difference in 2 to 4 weeks?</h2>
<p>This is the most commonly asked question and the answer is &#8220;<strong><em>Yes!</em></strong>&#8221; The key strength, and what makes short term mandates work, is <strong>focus</strong>. Since the partners know the volunteer is only there for a short while, everyone works <strong>more efficiently to maximize their time</strong>. Most people don&#8217;t have the same sense of urgency to get things done when a volunteer is on a longer term project.</p>
<p>Knowing some of the complexities and challenges in humanitarian work, I knew I had big shoes to fill when the organizers kept telling me that the last short term volunteers were incredible! In the end, everyone was pleased with the results and I received these kind words from the partner I worked with:</p>
<blockquote><p><em>&#8220;Your courage to choose a country that experienced a decade long civil war, diligence to get things done rightfully, a skill-set to adapt to a new environment and upbeat and pleasant personal traits in combination mitigated all challenges to make the program successful.&#8221;</em></p></blockquote>
<h2>What was your mandate?</h2>
<p>The partner organization and I offered a &#8220;<a href="http://ianselvarajah.com/2008/12/social-entrepreneurship-business.html">Business development and social entrepreneurship awareness</a>&#8221; seminar to 8 of the largest NGOs in Nepal. The NGOs in attendance dealt with a range of social issues such as healthcare, energy, finance, forestry, media, etc. The participants also varied in age and experience so the audience was quite diverse. We presented business concepts in ICT, marketing and finance as well as recommendations around <strong>potential income streams to minimize donor dependence</strong>. The feedback received after the seminar indicated that it was a great learning experience for them.</p>
<p>Leave for Change mandates are focused on capacity building, so unlike a <a href="http://ianselvarajah.com/2005/06/getting-roof-on.html">reconstruction mission</a> I did after the Tsunami in Sri Lanka, this was more of a knowledge transfer/educational project. While this project wasn&#8217;t in the field at the <a href="http://ianselvarajah.com/2005/06/sri-lankan-showers.html">grassroots level</a>, as many volunteer projects are, the transfer of skills was still a very satisfying experience.</p>
<h2>Who did you work with?</h2>
<p>My project was a multi-partner placement; however, I worked primarily with <a href="http://www.magnus.com.np/">Magnus Consulting</a>, a social enterprise based in Nepal. Magnus has only been active in Nepal for 4 years, but, arguably, they&#8217;ve done more for the country than some NGOs that have been there much longer. Their current focus is to bring ICT to local farmers in rural areas of Nepal.</p>
<p>The founders&#8217; courage and determination to push forward in a country that is experiencing significant political change is inspiring. Their core values of integrity, transparency, good governance and efficiency in everything they do, make Magnus a good example of why <strong>social enterprises are the way of the future</strong> in driving social change.</p>
<h2>Would you recommend this program to others?</h2>
<p>Absolutely! After my experience with Tsunami relief work in Sri Lanka, I feel everyone, at some point, should volunteer in a developing country. My experience in Nepal further cemented that belief. A short term Leave for Change project is <strong>ideal as it allows you to sample volunteerism</strong>. Although humanitarian work isn&#8217;t meant for everyone, Leave for Change is a great way to get your feet wet! It&#8217;s an amazing experience both personally and professionally; I highly recommend it!</p>
<p>If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask as I&#8217;m happy to share my experience!</p>
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		<title>Speed Dating Take 2</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Mar 2009 00:09:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ian Selvarajah</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Me: I mean, come on, no one really comes here expecting to meet their future boyfriend/girlfriend right?Girl#1 (surprised): So you’re just here to make friends???Me: &#8230;Ooohhhh&#8230;I guess you did&#8230;</p>
<p>A couple of friends and I are working on a new business concept dealing with singles/dating, so yesterday afternoon we were doing some research on the competition. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><center><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SbRd0zVRztI/AAAAAAAAAbE/iwRPVw8CPFw/s320/SpeedDating.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5310973022290693842" border="0" /></center><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">Me: <span style="font-style: italic;">I mean, come on, no one <span style="font-weight: bold;">really</span> comes here expecting to meet their future boyfriend/girlfriend right?</span></span><br /><span style="font-family:verdana;">Girl#1 (surprised): <span style="font-style: italic;">So you’re just here to make <span style="font-weight: bold;">friends</span>???</span></span><br /><span style="font-family:verdana;">Me: <span style="font-style: italic;">&#8230;Ooohhhh&#8230;I guess <span style="font-weight: bold;">you</span> did&#8230;</span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:verdana;">A couple of friends and I are working on a new business concept dealing with singles/dating, so yesterday afternoon we were doing some research on the competition. </span>  <span style="font-family:verdana;">It turned out that one of our potential competitors was having an event that night, so I said: <span style="font-style: italic;">&#8220;Is anyone up for some <span style="font-weight: bold;">market research</span>?&#8221;</span> and the rest is history. I had already been speed dating about 3 years ago, but I have to admit that I was pleasantly surprised this time&#8230;</span>  <span style="font-family:verdana;"></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" >3 Years Ago</span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:verdana;">When I went 3 years ago, I had prepared several characters/personalities that I was going to use with the various women: an immigrant who arrived the day before, an alcoholic, a religious nut, someone still hung up on his ex, Borat, someone who was hearing voices, etc. I was extremely disappointed when I arrived and noticed that A) the layout had all the girls sitting next to each other so they would be able to hear all my bizarre conversations and B) they were all French-speaking, so the jokes wouldn&#8217;t really work! My fun idea was ruined, but in the end, I still had a few good stories come out of that night.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:verdana;font-size:130%;"  >Yesterday</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:verdana;">Since this was more for research purposes, my buddy and I were able to have a bit more fun with it. The downside, again, was that although some of them were bilingual, out of the ~16 girls, only 3 really spoke English. My humour is of the witty/clever variety, so most of the conversations in French were, unfortunately, pretty generic. My buddy (who is French, but usually speaks English) even said it was awkward trying to explain what he did and to be smooth in French.</p>
<p>The upside, was that the venue was cooler, so now we know how much of a difference the venue can make and the majority of the girls were half decent and were capable of handling a conversation for 5 minutes. We also found out that engineers make up the bulk of speed daters&#8230; interesting!</span> <span style="font-family:verdana;">Overall, I&#8217;d say it was definitely a productive evening!</p>
<p></span><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:verdana;" ><span style="font-size:130%;">What Surprised Me</span></span>  <span style="font-family:verdana;"></p>
<p>3 years ago, the majority of people (men and women) at the event seemed very awkward. At yesterday&#8217;s event, most of them appeared to be intelligent and decent looking, so I wondered: <span style="font-style: italic;">&#8220;Similar to online dating, <span style="font-weight: bold;">has speed dating now become more mainstream</span> and &#8220;normal&#8221; people are giving it a shot?&#8221;</span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:verdana;">Assuming that people are ever-willing to experiment with new dating concepts/methods, I believe my idea should work well, but I’ll explain it in further detail later on.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:verdana;">If you’ve never been speed dating, I definitely recommend it as a fun evening experience. This is what I told a guy who seemed pretty nervous before the event: <span style="font-style: italic;">&#8220;<span style="font-weight: bold;">Worst case scenario: you come out with a few funny stories to tell. </span>Best case scenario: you meet someone amazing. Hopefully you fall somewhere in the middle!!&#8221;</span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:verdana;">Have you ever been speed dating? Would you try it?</span></span></p>
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		<title>Details of My Fire Accident in Thailand</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Feb 2009 02:04:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ian Selvarajah</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">Those of you who have me on Facebook, might have guessed from my status a few weeks ago that I had an incident in Thailand. The main picture for this entry was going to be the picture my friend took about 10-15mins after the accident, but some people found it a little gross and preferred a warning. So, instead of the pic automatically showing up, please <a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SYZQoYQXi9I/AAAAAAAAAaQ/9j58pOIGaIg/s1600-h/Burn_15Mins_Later_SM.JPG">click here</a> to see it.<br /></span><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;font-family:verdana;font-size:180%;"  >FAQ</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:verdana;" >Were you in that big club fire in Bangkok??</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);font-family:verdana;" >Nope. This happened at a big new year’s beach party in <a href="http://kohphangan.com/">Koh Phangan</a></span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:verdana;" >What happened?</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);font-family:verdana;" >We noticed some people were having trouble starting a bonfire and being a nice person, I offered to help out. It ended up being quite big. I was a little too close to the fire when someone accidentally bumped into me and I fell in. I jumped back up within a split second, brushed the embers (and my first layer of skin) off, but the damage was already done: 1st and 2nd degree burns in a split second! </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:verdana;" >Were you alone?</span><br /><span style="font-family:verdana;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);">Thank God I was not. I had 2 amazing volunteers from Nepal that were with me and who took great care of me. Craig was the one holding my arm up while the doctors peeled the skin off during the treatment; I probably couldn’t have gone through that on my own! Craig and Moose- thanks again for everything!!!</span></p>
<p></span> <span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:verdana;" >That must have hurt like hell!?</span><br /><span style="font-family:verdana;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);">The burn itself wasn’t that bad, probably due to the shock and the adrenaline. The doc mentioned that I lost about 8%-9% skin surface area and usually at 10% people tend to go into shock, so I was probably just on the borderline.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);">The treatment afterward was absolutely excruciating!! I believe it was on the third day when the pain was so bad that I was actually gritting my teeth and almost screaming in pain. Craig told me after the fact that he was staying strong for me, but that it was really too much to watch.</span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:verdana;" >Are you smiling while they&#8217;re peeling off your skin in the pic?!</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);font-family:verdana;" >Although I was trying to maintain my good humour and smile, I think it’s more of a wince from the pain as the soot, sand and skin came off.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:verdana;" >What was going through your mind when this happened?</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);font-family:verdana;" >Honestly – although it was pretty bad, I’m <a href="http://the1truecoolguy.blogspot.com/2006/11/when-bad-things-happen.html">very quick to turn a negative into a positive</a>, so I was immediately thanking God that it wasn’t worse, that my face was fine, that I wasn’t alone and figured that in the worst case, if it scars, then it’d be time to get that sleeve tattoo! <img src='http://ianselvarajah.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:verdana;" >Is it going to scar?</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);font-family:verdana;" >According to the docs, I should hopefully get the colour back in about 4 months and it might leave some marks for a few years, but gradually, most of it should be back to normal.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:verdana;">The good news it that the doctors (and nurses) in Thailand and Nepal did a great job and everyone here says it&#8217;s healing up very well. Here are some pictures from exactly a month later when most of the skin has come back. If you&#8217;re wondering why my arm is shiny, my uncle (also a doctor) recommended I put olive oil on the arm to help with the [risk of] scarring. Yes, I&#8217;m also using vitamin E cream! <img src='http://ianselvarajah.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </span></span></p>
<p><center><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SYZSYvsSVDI/AAAAAAAAAaY/FiShXNIzNeo/s1600-h/01_Feb1Fullarm_SM.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 97px; height: 135px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SYZSYvsSVDI/AAAAAAAAAaY/FiShXNIzNeo/s320/01_Feb1Fullarm_SM.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5298012596720522290" border="0" /></a> <a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SYZSxVvWfAI/AAAAAAAAAao/lcj-pNBOKjk/s1600-h/03_Feb1_Elbow_SM.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SYZSxVvWfAI/AAAAAAAAAao/lcj-pNBOKjk/s320/03_Feb1_Elbow_SM.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5298013019250785282" border="0" /></a> <a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SYZSxWrc3hI/AAAAAAAAAag/LLtgIfTJaA8/s1600-h/02_Feb1_Insidearm_SM.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SYZSxWrc3hI/AAAAAAAAAag/LLtgIfTJaA8/s320/02_Feb1_Insidearm_SM.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5298013019502861842" border="0" /></a></center></p>
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		<title>First Day in Bangkok</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Dec 2008 05:36:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I made it safe and sound to Bangkok and interestingly enough, I met a fellow Montrealer in Kathmandu who was coming on the same flight as me, so I had a travel buddy for a couple of days! I don&#8217;t have much time, but I wanted to share some pictures from Bangkok with you:</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">I made it safe and sound to Bangkok and interestingly enough, I met a fellow Montrealer in Kathmandu who was coming on the same flight as me, so I had a travel buddy for a couple of days!</span><span style="font-family:verdana;"> I don&#8217;t have much time, but I wanted to share some pictures from Bangkok with you:</span></p>
<p></span><center  style="font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW1tBV-X7I/AAAAAAAAAYc/vaoJaLz4DlA/s1600-h/01_MBKShoppingMall.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW1tBV-X7I/AAAAAAAAAYc/vaoJaLz4DlA/s320/01_MBKShoppingMall.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5284329522848489394" border="0" /></a>   <a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW1t-DyoSI/AAAAAAAAAYk/KQ6DhveKo1M/s1600-h/02_MBKShoppingMall.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW1t-DyoSI/AAAAAAAAAYk/KQ6DhveKo1M/s320/02_MBKShoppingMall.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5284329539146785058" border="0" /></a></span></center><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">We first went to the MBK mall- I felt like I was back at the Eaton&#8217;s center except that there was also a fairly large flea market-like area where they were selling tons of random stuff, there were booths with thousands of cell phones, cameras and MP3 players of all shapes and sizes. I also had a great meal in the food court for about $4.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:verdana;">After we finished up at the mall, we were going to visit the royal palace but it was closed. Some nice tuktuk drivers offered to take us around to a few tourists sites for 100bhat. We didn&#8217;t realize that the &#8220;scam&#8221; was that they would take us to some fashion store where they would try to convince me to get a tailor made suit. I actually looked at some of the designs and fabrics, but apparently not long enough for the driver to get his gas voucher (they pay his gas for bringing people to the store I guess). He was quite angry, but hey- some you win, some you lose!</span></p>
<p><center><a style="font-family: verdana;" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW1uVOw22I/AAAAAAAAAYs/ifdbgDTLic8/s1600-h/03_FountainsBridges.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW1uVOw22I/AAAAAAAAAYs/ifdbgDTLic8/s320/03_FountainsBridges.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5284329545366821730" border="0" /></a><span style="font-family:verdana;"> </span><a style="font-family: verdana;" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW1urZSD9I/AAAAAAAAAY0/Lwh2gt_5BFI/s1600-h/04_SculptureCloseup.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW1urZSD9I/AAAAAAAAAY0/Lwh2gt_5BFI/s320/04_SculptureCloseup.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5284329551316520914" border="0" /></a><br /><a style="font-family: verdana;" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW234Zqv3I/AAAAAAAAAY8/0mlC8IeYv8k/s1600-h/05_DetailedWindows.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW234Zqv3I/AAAAAAAAAY8/0mlC8IeYv8k/s320/05_DetailedWindows.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5284330808938250098" border="0" /></a><span style="font-family:verdana;"> </span><a style="font-family: verdana;" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW24b9fOFI/AAAAAAAAAZE/U8Yhp3F1xhU/s1600-h/06_DragonSculpture.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW24b9fOFI/AAAAAAAAAZE/U8Yhp3F1xhU/s320/06_DragonSculpture.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5284330818483730514" border="0" /></a></center><span style="font-family:verdana;">Some pictures from the </span><a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wat_Benchamabophit">Wat Benchamabophit</a><span style="font-family:verdana;"> temple which is also known as the Marble Temple.</span></p>
<p><center><a style="font-family: verdana;" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW24iWOMyI/AAAAAAAAAZM/ItYP-py_cnM/s1600-h/07_Entrance.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW24iWOMyI/AAAAAAAAAZM/ItYP-py_cnM/s320/07_Entrance.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5284330820198085410" border="0" /></a><span style="font-family:verdana;"> </span><a style="font-family: verdana;" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW25DVZXcI/AAAAAAAAAZU/-es_dbj5CqA/s1600-h/08_BuddhaStatues.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW25DVZXcI/AAAAAAAAAZU/-es_dbj5CqA/s320/08_BuddhaStatues.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5284330829052992962" border="0" /></a></center><span style="font-family:verdana;">They also had several statues of Buddha in various poses from different eras and areas of Asia.</span></p>
<p><center><a style="font-family: verdana;" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW4HtyyTtI/AAAAAAAAAZc/6woHZAX7YBI/s1600-h/09_MonkPraying.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW4HtyyTtI/AAAAAAAAAZc/6woHZAX7YBI/s320/09_MonkPraying.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5284332180480347858" border="0" /></a><span style="font-family:verdana;"> </span><a style="font-family: verdana;" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW4ICaIRJI/AAAAAAAAAZk/qbmiEikww3c/s1600-h/10_MonksTemple.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW4ICaIRJI/AAAAAAAAAZk/qbmiEikww3c/s320/10_MonksTemple.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5284332186014074002" border="0" /></a></center><span style="font-family:verdana;">When we arrived, we saw an area that said: &#8220;Do not enter&#8221;, so of course, we didn&#8217;t. As we walked around and saw the all the buddha statues, we came upon this door. We walked in very quietly since there were monks meditating and as we got to the other side, we realized this was the same &#8220;Do not enter&#8221; room! Oops.</span></p>
<p><center><a style="font-family: verdana;" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW4InLtNOI/AAAAAAAAAZs/gh5Y13hHR88/s1600-h/11_StandingBuddha.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW4InLtNOI/AAAAAAAAAZs/gh5Y13hHR88/s320/11_StandingBuddha.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5284332195885692130" border="0" /></a><span style="font-family:verdana;"> </span><a style="font-family: verdana;" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW4JU6pIfI/AAAAAAAAAZ0/_lrY00GZ4I8/s1600-h/12_StandingBuddha.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW4JU6pIfI/AAAAAAAAAZ0/_lrY00GZ4I8/s320/12_StandingBuddha.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5284332208162152946" border="0" /></a></center><span style="font-family:verdana;">The next stop was </span><a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://www.bangkokguidebook.com/temples/wat-indrawihan-the-standing-buddha.html">Wat Indrawihan</a><span style="font-family:verdana;">, the temple of the [giant] standing buddha, but not before we got dra<br />
gged into another custom tailor shop. I believe he said the statue was around 30 meters tall!</span></p>
<p><center><a style="font-family: verdana;" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW5UgqP2oI/AAAAAAAAAZ8/zWsNr0p-pZI/s1600-h/13_KhaoSanXmas.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW5UgqP2oI/AAAAAAAAAZ8/zWsNr0p-pZI/s320/13_KhaoSanXmas.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5284333499804801666" border="0" /></a><span style="font-family:verdana;"> </span><a style="font-family: verdana;" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW5Vg9v4CI/AAAAAAAAAaE/GhuR_aTVvrE/s1600-h/14_KhaoSanXmasParade.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW5Vg9v4CI/AAAAAAAAAaE/GhuR_aTVvrE/s320/14_KhaoSanXmasParade.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5284333517066461218" border="0" /></a></center><span style="font-family:verdana;">I&#8217;ll wrap up with some pictures from </span><a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Khao_San_Road">Khao San road</a><span style="font-family:verdana;">, which is one of the main tourist strips here in Bangkok. The second picture is great- this gentleman is quite the character and apparently he&#8217;s been doing this for years: He rides around in his suped-up tuktuk blaring Christmas music from artists such as </span><a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Boney_M">Boney M</a><span style="font-family:verdana;">. I was reminded of Christmas back home! <img src='http://ianselvarajah.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </span><br /></span></p>
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		<title>Social Entrepreneurship / Business Development Seminar</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Dec 2008 06:22:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ian Selvarajah</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>After some confusion around the audience of the seminar I was scheduled to give, we decided that instead of an ICT awareness training, we would be doing a business development seminar with a focus on social entrepreneurship and ICT instead.</p>
<p>The training was on Friday at the Tibet Hotel in Lazimpat. 30 people from 8 different [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">After some confusion around the audience of the seminar I was scheduled to give, we decided that instead of an <a href="http://the1truecoolguy.blogspot.com/2008/12/first-day-on-job-at-magnus-consulting.html">ICT awareness training</a>, we would be doing a <span style="font-weight: bold;">business development seminar</span> with a focus on social entrepreneurship and ICT instead.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:verdana;">The training was on Friday at the Tibet Hotel in Lazimpat. 30 people from 8 different NGOs were scheduled to attend. In the end, only about 20 from 6 showed up, but I was still pleased with the turnout. I was also happy to see that majority of the audience was fairly young, so most were very receptive to a new way of thinking about NGOs and social entrepreneurship. The NGOs that were present were </span><a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://www.ceciasia.org/nepal.htm">CECI-Nepal</a><span style="font-family:verdana;">, </span><a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://www.fecofun.org/">FECOFUN</a><span style="font-family:verdana;">, </span><a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://www.fairtradegroupnepal.org/">FTG</a><span style="font-family:verdana;">, </span><a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://www.idsnepal.org/ids/index.html">IDS</a><span style="font-family:verdana;">, </span><a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://www.himalayanbiotrade.com/">HBTL</a><span style="font-family:verdana;">, </span><a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://www.blogger.com/www.worldview.org.np/">WorldView</a><span style="font-family:verdana;">, MCF (part of </span><a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://www.nefscun.org.np/">NEFSCUN</a><span style="font-family:verdana;">) and </span><a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://www.ntagonline.org/">NTAG</a><span style="font-family:verdana;">.</span></p>
<p></span><center><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SU8wra3iYcI/AAAAAAAAAYM/IU5LerNV2nc/s1600-h/01_TrainingRoom.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SU8wra3iYcI/AAAAAAAAAYM/IU5LerNV2nc/s320/01_TrainingRoom.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5282494410433651138" border="0" /></a> <a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SU8wrteGHeI/AAAAAAAAAYU/AXHUA3Io8m4/s1600-h/02_Tika_Ian.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SU8wrteGHeI/AAAAAAAAAYU/AXHUA3Io8m4/s320/02_Tika_Ian.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5282494415427214818" border="0" /></a></center><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">Here&#8217;s a picture of the training room and then Tika and I at the end of the day! </span></span><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" ><span style="font-family:verdana;"><br />Results</span></span><br /><span style="font-family:verdana;">I tallied up the feedback form results and the overall rating was 3.46/4, so <span style="font-weight: bold;">87%</span>. Most of the less than positive results were because some of the people felt the training wasn&#8217;t relevant to them. Tika (my counterpart) and I knew this would be a challenge because social entrepreneurship is essentially a completely new way of approaching humanitarian work and we figured there would be some resistance to change.</span>  <span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" ><span style="font-family:verdana;"></p>
<p>Making History</span></span>  <span style="font-family:verdana;"><br />Once everyone left, Tika said: <span style="font-style: italic;">&#8220;I hope you realize we made history in Nepal today; no one has done a social entrepreneurship awareness training with this many NGOs at once!&#8221;</span>. Unfortunately, at that moment, I really <span style="font-weight: bold;">wished I could have done more</span> or been a little more focused while I was preparing the training. In any case, the objective was to plant the seed and hopefully more organizations will consider social entrepreneurship as a business model.</span>  <span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" ><span style="font-family:verdana;"></p>
<p>Thank Yous</span></span>  <span style="font-family:verdana;"><br />Now that my mandate is officially done, there are a few &#8220;Thank you&#8221;s that need to be said:</span>  <span style="font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-weight: bold;"></p>
<p>Anne-Jennifer</span> &#8211; The person in my office who&#8217;s in charge of organizing the Leave for Change program. She seemed happy when I was selected and is always encouraging me to be an ambassador for Deloitte. She also provided some Deloitte paraphernalia that I was able to give as prizes during the training and as gifts to some people in the offices here!</span>  <span style="font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-weight: bold;"></p>
<p>CECI Montreal and Nepal</span> &#8211; Specifically; Nathalie, Geetika and Hari. Everyone was incredibly helpful in getting everything organized and everything went much more smoothly than I expected! This was an incredible opportunity to do something I love and I was happy to be selected for it!</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:verdana;"><a href="http://www.magnus.com.np/"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Magnus Consulting</span></a> &#8211; My counterpart Tika was a really great support throughout the process and I was very happy to work with them. From day 1, I was amazed with how focused and driven this organization is in terms of making a social impact. They&#8217;ve only been established since 2004, but I would argue that they have made more progress than some of the organizations that have been around for much, much longer! Now do you see why <span style="font-weight: bold;">social entrepreneurship is a better model</span>??</span>  <span style="font-family:verdana;"></p>
<p><a href="http://www.pascaleleblanc.com/"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Pascale Leblanc</span></a> &#8211; Pascale was my pre-departure cultural awareness instructor and she has been incredibly helpful long after the initial training was completed. I&#8217;m grateful she was <span style="font-weight: bold;">very proactive in offering help</span>! She sent me some good information about teaching in a different culture and she really saved me when it came to creating a feedback form for the training!</span>  <span style="font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-weight: bold;"></p>
<p>The Uniterra volunteers</span> &#8211; Craig, Monica, Moose, Paul, Salome, Charles, Courtney, Anne, John, Cathy and anyone I might have forgotten. Being around other Canadians with similar objectives of making a social change was refreshing and I was glad that those who attended the seminar were able to help guide some of the discussions. Thank you!</p>
<p>Now&#8230;off to Bangkok, Thailand for my <span style="font-weight: bold;">real</span> vacation!!<br /></span></span></p>
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		<title>Nepal City Tour Lalitpur / Patan</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Dec 2008 07:58:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Last Saturday, I was taken for a city tour to 3 locations around Kathmandu. Here are some pictures of the first place we went to called Lalitpur. As with most pictures on this blog, you can click on them to see a larger version.</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">Last Saturday, I was taken for a city tour to 3 locations around Kathmandu. Here are some pictures of the first place we went to called </span><a href="http://www.lalitpur.org.np/e_home.php"><span style="font-family:verdana;">Lalitpur</span></a><span style="font-family:verdana;">. As with most pictures on this blog, you can click on them to see a larger version.</p>
<p></span></span><center><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUH7Y-Jr7gI/AAAAAAAAAWs/jgxgMWLWv8c/s1600-h/01_Lalitpur.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUH7Y-Jr7gI/AAAAAAAAAWs/jgxgMWLWv8c/s320/01_Lalitpur.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5278776644673990146" border="0" /></a>     <a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUH7ZL7cLCI/AAAAAAAAAW0/AeI6ugsroj4/s1600-h/02_LalitpurBell.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUH7ZL7cLCI/AAAAAAAAAW0/AeI6ugsroj4/s320/02_LalitpurBell.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5278776648372333602" border="0" /></a></center><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">This is a view of Lalitpur and the big bell</span></span><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;"> is what was used to warn the king of invading forces (I think that&#8217;s what the guide said?). Lalit means &#8220;Art&#8221; and Pur means &#8220;Palace&#8221; so Lalitpur is also known as the City of Fine Arts.</span></span></p>
<p><center><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUH_oUhNtmI/AAAAAAAAAW8/DyHh3j8nWSY/s1600-h/03_KingsCastle.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUH_oUhNtmI/AAAAAAAAAW8/DyHh3j8nWSY/s320/03_KingsCastle.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5278781306422802018" border="0" /></a>   <a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUH_o-iGnBI/AAAAAAAAAXE/BykrmRgKu7g/s1600-h/04_DetailedDoor.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUH_o-iGnBI/AAAAAAAAAXE/BykrmRgKu7g/s320/04_DetailedDoor.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5278781317700819986" border="0" /></a></center><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">This is the entrance to the palace. I&#8217;m always amazed at the level of detail of the sculptures on the temples!</p>
<p><center><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUH_pkM-dQI/AAAAAAAAAXU/Bws4YdTMnGg/s1600-h/06_Temple.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUH_pkM-dQI/AAAAAAAAAXU/Bws4YdTMnGg/s320/06_Temple.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5278781327812752642" border="0" /></a> <span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUH_pE1J5VI/AAAAAAAAAXM/f4KUlKOMCfE/s1600-h/05_TempleMouldings.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUH_pE1J5VI/AAAAAAAAAXM/f4KUlKOMCfE/s320/05_TempleMouldings.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5278781319391339858" border="0" /> </a></span></span></center></span></span><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">More temples and sculptures</p>
<p><center><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUIC2le183I/AAAAAAAAAXk/ckV-kWeq05g/s1600-h/08_GoldenTempleEntranceSculpture.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUIC2le183I/AAAAAAAAAXk/ckV-kWeq05g/s320/08_GoldenTempleEntranceSculpture.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5278784850029310834" border="0" /></a><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;"> </span></span><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUIC2JkcrdI/AAAAAAAAAXc/h04yt0Ce3gI/s1600-h/07_GoldenTempleEntrance.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUIC2JkcrdI/AAAAAAAAAXc/h04yt0Ce3gI/s320/07_GoldenTempleEntrance.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5278784842536627666" border="0" /></a></span></span></center></span></span><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">This is the entrance to the Golden Temple. Something interesting: Since the cow is a sacred animal here, if you&#8217;re wearing leather shoes, you have to take them off before going into the temple!</p>
<p><center><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUIC3C6y58I/AAAAAAAAAX0/e9qqlvpca_k/s1600-h/10_5Roofs.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUIC3C6y58I/AAAAAAAAAX0/e9qqlvpca_k/s320/10_5Roofs.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5278784857931179970" border="0" /></a><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;"> </span></span><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUIC22jb0lI/AAAAAAAAAXs/dSUaKxMmK5M/s1600-h/09_GoldenTempleBuddha.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUIC22jb0lI/AAAAAAAAAXs/dSUaKxMmK5M/s320/09_GoldenTempleBuddha.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5278784854611972690" border="0" /></a></span></span></center></span></span><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">Here&#8217;s a temple with 5 roofs and a statue of Buddha.</p>
<p><center><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUIVrJ6ACOI/AAAAAAAAAYE/OBxn-r5cSc0/s1600-h/12_PoojaLineup.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUIVrJ6ACOI/AAAAAAAAAYE/OBxn-r5cSc0/s320/12_PoojaLineup.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5278805544369391842" border="0" /></a> <span><span><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUIVq39jMGI/AAAAAAAAAX8/ma5Yy9b7biE/s1600-h/11_BuddhistAltar.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUIVq39jMGI/AAAAAAAAAX8/ma5Yy9b7biE/s320/11_BuddhistAltar.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5278805539552440418" border="0" /></a></span></span></span></span><br /></center>All these people are lining up to offer a sacrifice in the temple and the 2nd picture is an altar where people will come and offer fruits/coconuts to the gods.<br /></span></span></p>
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		<title>First Day on the job at Magnus Consulting</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Dec 2008 01:59:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ian Selvarajah</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Since it was my first day, the driver came to pick me up in the morning and we headed over to Magnus Consulting, the organization I’ll be working with here. The firm is in Patan which is another part of town, different from where I (and the other volunteers) have been staying, so there is [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">Since it was my first day, the driver came to pick me up in the morning and we headed over to <a href="http://www.magnus.com.np/">Magnus Consulting</a>, the organization I’ll be working with here. The firm is in Patan which is another part of town, different from where I (and the other volunteers) have been staying, so there is a chance I would have to move somewhere there.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:verdana;">I met my counterpart, Tika, who was very welcoming and thankfully, communications were quite easy and straightforward. He explained that I had a few options in terms of projects they’re working on, so I opted to create a <span style="font-weight: bold;">Information Communication Technology (<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Information_communication_technology">ICT</a>) awareness and benefits training</span> for some of the Uniterra partners. He explained how one of the main challenges to getting people to use ICT here is that they’re apprehensive of using computers, but once they get their hands on the system, they’re just fine. Apparently resistance to change is a common human trait anywhere in the world!</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:verdana;">The plan is to take one or 2 of the Uniterra partners and to do a case study of <span style="font-weight: bold;">how technology can bridge some gaps</span> in their business processes and make them more efficient. If I do end up with some spare time, which seems unlikely, I would develop basic business development/entrepreneurship training for the partners as well.</p>
<p>We had lunch together and discussed several issues with development in general and I was able to share some of my experiences in Sri Lanka as well. The restaurant where we had lunch was connected to a bookstore, so I picked up <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Monk-Who-Sold-His-Ferrari/dp/0062515675">The Monk who sold his Ferrari</a> and have started reading that too.<br /></span><br /><span style="font-family:verdana;">Ultimately, what I really liked about the folks at Magnus is that because they’re a <span style="font-weight: bold;"><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Social_enterprise">social enterprise</a> </span>(rather than an NGO) their mindset, approach and way of thinking are very different. NGOs are constantly dependent on donors and funding, whereas a social enterprise is run as a business, so of course they have <span style="font-weight: bold;">true sustainability in mind</span>.</p>
<p>The objective here is to demonstrate to the partners <span style="font-weight: bold;">why they should invest in ICT and how it will help them</span> become independently sustainable.</span></span></p>
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		<title>First 24+ Hours in Nepal</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Dec 2008 02:42:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m currently in Nepal working on a volunteer project with CECI. I&#8217;ll give you all the details when I have a little more time, but here&#8217;s what&#8217;s been happening so far (it&#8217;s long, but bear with me, it&#8217;s 2 days worth!): </p>
<p>December 4th</p>
<p>17:05 &#8211; Landing in Nepal; I&#8217;ve been traveling since the evening of Dec. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><center><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 131px; height: 160px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/STnkXe4CPEI/AAAAAAAAAWk/Cvxiqz1uqAQ/s320/490px-Flag_of_Nepal.svg.png" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5276499530517462082" border="0" /></center><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">I&#8217;m currently in <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nepal">Nepal</a> working on a volunteer project with CECI. I&#8217;ll give you all the details when I have a little more time, but here&#8217;s what&#8217;s been happening so far (it&#8217;s long, but bear with me, it&#8217;s 2 days worth!):</span> <span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" ><span style="font-family:verdana;"></p>
<p>December 4th</span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:verdana;">17:05 &#8211; Landing in Nepal; I&#8217;ve been traveling since the evening of Dec. 2nd, but seeing the beautiful mountain ranges from the aircraft makes it all worthwhile! Oh, and <span style="font-weight: bold;">I was bumped up to business class</span> for the Doha &#8211; Kathmandu leg of my journey.</span><br /><span style="font-family:verdana;"><br />17:10 &#8211; I step off the aircraft and take a deep breath. The air feels dense, but the smell is typically South Asian. It&#8217;s hard to describe, but if you&#8217;ve traveled to these places, you know it. It&#8217;s something like <span style="font-weight: bold;">a cross between burning rubber and vegetation</span>.</span>  <span style="font-family:verdana;"></p>
<p>17:15 &#8211; The shuttle from the aircraft to the terminal takes us 15 seconds. I could have walked. I ask for a one month tourist visa and explain that my return flight is actually on January 18th, but that I&#8217;ll be leaving for a few weeks in between. He tells me to get a $100 2 month visa instead of a $40 30 day one. The German gentleman in front of me tells me he&#8217;s overheard my conversation and recommends I get the $100 one since it&#8217;ll come out cheaper. He must have missed something: $40*2 is still $80. <span style="font-weight: bold;">I took the $40 visa</span>.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:verdana;">18:00 &#8211; After waiting a while for the luggage it ends up coming out. I&#8217;m surprised that several people have <span style="font-weight: bold;">TVs in their checked luggage</span> and more impressed at how long it&#8217;s taking people to pick them up off the belt. I&#8217;m also quite pleased that my stuff made it intact through all the connections (Montreal &#8211;> London &#8211;> Doha &#8211;> Kathmandu).</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:verdana;">18:15 &#8211; The CECI-Nepal people are waiting for me at the exit. I see the sign: <span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">&#8220;Uniterra &#8211; Ian Selvarajah&#8221;</span>. Although I&#8217;ve traveled a lot, it&#8217;s my first time landing somewhere and having someone holding up my name card. I&#8217;ve always wanted that! Ha ha</p>
<p>18:20 &#8211; I meet Hari, the Uniterra program director who puts a <span style="font-weight: bold;">scarf and Mala (flower garland) around my neck to welcome me</span>. He tells me despite the long travel I still look fresh. I tell him that due to all my travel last year, I was fortunate enough to have lounge access so I took a shower when I was in London Heathrow.</p>
<p>19:00 &#8211; Arrive at the hotel Tibet where I&#8217;m staying for a couple of days. The driving is like Sri Lanka, I might even say slightly worse. We have a few near misses, but this is how it is; I missed the times <span style="font-weight: bold;">I was </span><a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://the1truecoolguy.blogspot.com/2006/04/driving-in-sri-lanka.html">driving in Sri Lanka</a>. There&#8217;s nothing like a near head-on collision to make you feel alive!</p>
<p>19:30 &#8211; Although I&#8217;m tired, I need to find an adapter for my laptop and other electronics. As I walk out, the front desk tells me I have a message. I find it curious that a Debi has said: <span style="font-style: italic;">&#8220;If you want to knock on my door when you are settled, feel free.&#8221;</span>; I ask them if Debi works for CECI. They hesitate, but say &#8220;Yes.&#8221;.</p>
<p>19:40 &#8211; I find a &#8220;department store&#8221; and purchase an adapter for 50Rs. (< $1). I briefly meet a girl who looks western and chat for a few minutes. She tells me she's been in Nepal for about a month and that there are plenty of good restaurants around the hotel. </p>
<p>19:50 &#8211; Get back to the hotel and again ask if Debi works for CECI; they say yes, so I go knock on the door. Debi is the other Leave for Change volunteer that had arrived on Saturday. She tells me that she has the bad news that <span style="font-weight: bold;">we&#8217;re being picked up @ 07:15 to clean up the streets for <a href="http://www.worldvolunteerweb.org/int-l-volunteer-day.html">International Volunteers&#8217; Day</a></span>. No problem.</p>
<p>20:30 &#8211; Make sure everything is in my suitcases, shower and go to bed.</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" >December 5th</span></p>
<p>06:00 &#8211; Wake up, shower, shave and get dressed. I was told that we have a volunteers&#8217; cocktail at 17:00 and I won&#8217;t have time to change in between. Good news is that it&#8217;s supposed to be casual.</p>
<p>07:30 &#8211; The CECI jeep comes to pick us up. I meet John, Monica, Jaclyn and Salome who are all Canadian volunteers that have been in Nepal for more than 6 months. They all seem <span style="font-weight: bold;">very nice and fun </span>despite how early it is.</p>
<p>08:00 &#8211; <span style="font-weight: bold;">Volunteers from several countries are all gathered around</span>- it&#8217;s quite a sight to see! A few people make the comment that I&#8217;m clearly over-dressed to be picking up garbage. I agree. Everyone is also surprised that I arrived the night before and am <span style="font-weight: bold;">cleaning garbage on my very first day</span> a few hours later!</p>
<p>10:00 &#8211; Still walking around cleaning up the streets. I notice there are several people much more skilled than we are- the actual street cleaners were cleaning with us. Monica is quite popular with the crowd because she can speak some Nepali; she explains that &#8220;Ke&#8221; means &#8220;what&#8221; and &#8220;Ho&#8221; is &#8220;is&#8221;. <span style="font-style: italic;">&#8220;Topeko nam ke ho?&#8221;</span> (Your name, what is?). I learn to say: <span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;">&#8220;Mero nam Ian ho&#8221;</span><span style="font-weight: bold;"> (My name Ian is)</span> and ask a few people around what their names are. The language sounds a lot like Hindi.</p>
<p>10:45 &#8211; Some of the street kids perform a play for all the volunteers. It was a little disturbing as these young kids were portraying what life is like in the city. Although I couldn&#8217;t understand anything, I got rough idea. The temperature is about <span style="font-weight: bold;">20 degrees celsius</span>. Not bad for a winter day!</p>
<p>11:30 &#8211; I haven&#8217;t eaten anything since lunch on the plane the day before, so John, Salome, Debi and I find a place to eat. I try <span style="font-weight: bold;">Momos</span> for the first time; they&#8217;re like dumplings and quite delicious!</p>
<p>13:00 &#8211; We head back to the CECI office for my official orientation. It&#8217;s actually colder in the office than outside! Geetika, the program director introduces me to the people in the office and explains some of the Nepali etiquette. She figures I should be OK given my Sri Lankan background. I explain that my only questions revolve around my specific mandate as it&#8217;s still not clear <span style="font-weight: bold;">what exactly I have to do here</span>. She assures me that we will sort out the details of the mandate during our meeting with the partner organization on Monday morning. She also tells me how great the past Leave for Change volunteers have been, so <span style="font-weight: bold;">I have some big shoes to fill</span>!</p>
<p>15:00 &#8211; Hari gives me a brief historial overview of CECI-Nepal and the Uniterra program and the work they&#8217;re doing is actually quite amazing. The biggest difference between this project and the work I did in Sri Lanka is that these are <span style="font-weight: bold;">more sustainable projects</span> in the sense that <span style="f<br />
ont-weight: bold;">we&#8217;re transferring knowledge and skills </span>rather than just building things and leaving.</p>
<p>16:00 &#8211; I meet Moose (nickname, of course), Craig, Courtney and Noureen- more volunteers that have showed up for the cocktail. <span style="font-weight: bold;">Everyone I meet is really great.</span> All these people are working on really neat projects and most of them have left their existing jobs to do something in another country. I&#8217;m always impressed meeting and talking to people like this.</p>
<p>17:00 &#8211; We get to the cocktail and I meet several more volunteers Paul, Anne Marie, Kelly, Charles, Cathy (I&#8217;m having trouble remembering more names&#8230;). One of the girls who lives close to the hotel was <span style="font-weight: bold;">leaving at 18:30</span>, so I figured I&#8217;d leave with her.</p>
<p>20:00 &#8211; Several glasses of wine later and <span style="font-weight: bold;">I&#8217;m still at the party.</span> I tell them I&#8217;m from Montreal, so despite the mild jetlag, I&#8217;ll come out to party&#8230;</p>
<p>~20:30 &#8211; We leave to a place called G&#8217;s Terrace and have a great time. I&#8217;m told the live band is  one of the best in Nepal and they&#8217;re quite good! I&#8217;m drinking water by this point because I have to be up early the next day.</p>
<p>23:00 &#8211; Bars close at 23:00, so I&#8217;m getting ready to leave when the volunteers tell me there&#8217;s another place they always go to.</p>
<p>23:10 &#8211; Next bar: Tom and Jerry&#8217;s (those are actually the owners&#8217; names). Some are surprised I&#8217;m still standing, others are telling me their first nights were like this too, so I&#8217;m glad I stuck around! I am, afterall <span style="font-weight: bold;">representing Montreal</span>, right? <img src='http://ianselvarajah.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" >December 6th</span></p>
<p>00:15 &#8211; A cab asks for 400Rs. to take us all home. Craig has been here for a while, so he knows better and gets it down to 250. <span style="font-weight: bold;">5 of us pile into a tiny Suzuki Swift cab</span> and head home.</p>
<p>00:30 &#8211; Get to the hotel, lights are all off and the front is locked up. I&#8217;m concerned for about 3 seconds and knock on the door. Someone eventually opens it up.</p>
<p>00:55 &#8211; Finally got the internet in my room working a little, so I send an email update to the family, update my Facebook status (a must!) and get to bed.</p>
<p>06:30 &#8211; Wake up, shower, download the videos to the PC (I&#8217;ll post these asap)</p>
<p>Now &#8211; I&#8217;m getting picked up in 45 minutes for a city tour. I&#8217;ve heard it&#8217;s really great, so I&#8217;m looking forward to that. Sorry for the long post, the next ones should be shorter and have more pics!!</p>
<p>Cheers!<br /></span></span></p>
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		<title>The Bilz and Kashif &#8211; Sean Kingston Bollywood Girls (Remix)</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Oct 2008 23:40:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ian Selvarajah</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t normally do this sort of thing, but the voting is so close, the contest ends today and I&#8217;d like to give my boys a hand (I should have thought of this earlier)&#8230;</p>
<p>The Bilz and Kashif have really put Montreal on the map when it comes to this kind of music. See here and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><center><img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SP5qDL_eB2I/AAAAAAAAAWc/kuv_MShuQTA/s320/skingston-bgirls-banner-the-bilz.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5259758017806468962" border="0" /></center><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">I don&#8217;t normally do this sort of thing, but the voting is so close, the contest ends today and I&#8217;d like to give my boys a hand (I should have thought of this earlier)&#8230;</p>
<p>The Bilz and Kashif have really put Montreal on the map when it comes to this kind of music. See <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-d-pRfdIK68">here</a> and <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8FKnqmOOqf4">here</a>. I&#8217;ve known DJ Vicious since high school and Kashif has to be one of the most down to earth guys I&#8217;ve ever met, considering he&#8217;s a quasi-celebrity! I&#8217;m sure they&#8217;ll be actual celebrities soon enough! ha ha Here&#8217;s where I (they) need some help&#8230;<br /></span><br /><span style="font-family:verdana;">Desihits.com is running a <a href="http://www.desihits.com/exclusives/sean-kingston-bollywood-girls/songs">contest</a> for the best &#8220;Indian remix&#8221; of Sean Kingston&#8217;s song <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lt6o8NlrbHg">Beautiful Girls</a> titled &#8220;Bollywood girls&#8221;. I have to admit, the person in 2nd place has a pretty catchy tune, but I like that there&#8217;s actual singing in the Bilz track:</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:verdana;">Listen to their remix and vote here: </span><a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://www.desihits.com/exclusives/sean-kingston-bollywood-girls/song/the-bilz-and-kashif">The Bilz and Kashif &#8211; Bollywood Girls Remix</a></p>
<p>Thanks!!</p>
<p></span><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0); font-weight: bold;">**Update</span>: They went back and forth for the last few hours, with never more than a 2% difference and in the end, unfortunately I heard they came in 2nd place by only 10-15 votes! Thanks to everyone who voted for them!!</span></span></p>
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		<title>My Ideal Woman &#8211; 4 Years Later</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Sep 2008 22:06:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ian Selvarajah</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>4 years ago today, I wrote my &#8220;About Women&#8221; post that described, in great detail, the type of woman I was looking for. Obviously, it was meant to be tongue in cheek, but I wondered how much, if at all, things have changed from when I was 22 given that I&#8217;m now older and presumably [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">4 years ago today, I wrote my &#8220;<a href="http://ianselvarajah.com/2004/09/about-women.html">About Women</a>&#8221; post that described, in great detail, the type of woman I was looking for. Obviously, it was meant to be tongue in cheek, but I wondered how much, if at all, things have changed from when I was 22 given that I&#8217;m now older and presumably wiser (or not!).</span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:verdana;">My bullet point &#8220;requirements&#8221; from 4 years ago are still more or less true, but several of them have evolved to allow for a little more flexibility. Most are also very specific, so a &#8220;wiser&#8221; Ian will present his ideal woman a little more eloquently. Here are the main characteristics* I&#8217;d be looking for in my &#8220;ideal&#8221; woman:</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;">Intelligence</span><br />
</span><span style="font-family:verdana;">&#8230; <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emotional_intelligence">EQ</a> over <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/IQ">IQ</a> (in my books)<br />
</span><span style="font-family:verdana;">&#8230; being <a href="http://www.quoteland.com/tellafriend/index.asp?QUOTE_ID=715">able to hold two opposing ideas in mind at the same time</a><br />
</span><span style="font-family:verdana;">&#8230; being aware of one&#8217;s strengths and weaknesses<br />
</span><span style="font-family:verdana;">&#8230; having <a href="http://ianselvarajah.com/2007/02/confidence-vs-arrogance.html">confidence</a> and <a href="http://ianselvarajah.com/2007/01/should-you-care-what-other-people-think.html">self-respect</a><br />
</span><span style="font-family:verdana;">&#8230; having a sense of <a href="http://ianselvarajah.com/tag/humor">humor</a> and not sweating the small stuff<br />
</span><span style="font-family:verdana;">&#8230; <a href="http://ianselvarajah.com/2006/08/last-conversation-youll-ever-have.html">getting it</a><br />
</span><span style="font-family:verdana;">&#8230; understanding <a href="http://ianselvarajah.com/2006/10/five-dollars-and-eight-magical-cents.html">basic math</a><br />
</span><span style="font-family:verdana;">&#8230; being able to adapt to <a href="http://ianselvarajah.com/2005/03/no-need-alarm-clocks.html">new situations</a> and <a href="http://ianselvarajah.com/2005/04/day-in-mullaitivu.html">surroundings</a><br />
</span> <span style="font-family:verdana;"><br />
<span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;">Trustworthiness</span><br />
</span><span style="font-family:verdana;">&#8230; the cornerstone of any relationship<br />
</span><span style="font-family:verdana;">&#8230; being open and honest<br />
</span><span style="font-family:verdana;">&#8230; having integrity in all situations<br />
</span> <span style="font-family:verdana;"><br />
<span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;">Humaneness</span><br />
</span><span style="font-family:verdana;">&#8230; <a href="http://ianselvarajah.com/2005/01/life-changing-decisions-and-actions.html">putting others before yourself</a> even in <a href="http://ianselvarajah.com/2006/11/day-i-became-old.html">small things</a><br />
</span><span style="font-family:verdana;">&#8230; <a href="http://ianselvarajah.com/2005/06/i-scream-you-scream.html">making a difference</a><br />
</span><span style="font-family:verdana;">&#8230; being merciful, compassionate, understanding, forgiving<br />
</span><span style="font-family:verdana;">&#8230; <a href="http://ianselvarajah.com/2005/06/about-religion.html">believing in something</a><br />
</span> <span style="font-family:verdana;"><br />
<span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;">Courage</span><br />
</span><span style="font-family:verdana;">&#8230; <a href="http://ianselvarajah.com/2006/10/me-in-window-office-already.html">taking risks</a><br />
</span><span style="font-family:verdana;">&#8230; <a href="http://ianselvarajah.com/2006/06/skydiving-parachute-school-of-toronto.html">jumping out of a perfectly good airplane for fun</a><br />
</span><span style="font-family:verdana;">&#8230; <a href="http://ianselvarajah.com/2005/03/very-brave-girl.html">staying in a creepy house in a shady area of a developing country</a><br />
</span><span style="font-family:verdana;">&#8230; <a href="http://ianselvarajah.com/2005/07/tell-me-whats-funny.html">speaking up for those who can&#8217;t speak for themselves</a><br />
</span><span style="font-family:verdana;">&#8230; doing the right thing<br />
</span><span style="font-family:verdana;">&#8230; having a <a href="http://ianselvarajah.com/2005/08/picture-gallery.html">sense of adventure</a><br />
</span> <span style="font-family:verdana;"><br />
<span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;">Sternness</span><br />
</span><span style="font-family:verdana;">&#8230; being fair and just<br />
</span><span style="font-family:verdana;">&#8230; <a href="http://ianselvarajah.com/2005/06/beware-of-reply-all-email-function.html">saying what needs to be said</a><br />
</span><span style="font-family:verdana;">&#8230; being <a href="http://ianselvarajah.com/2006/03/yes-time-is-valuable.html#speakingup">strict when necessary</a></span><br />
<span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;"><br />
Bonus points to the person who tells me where these 5 traits come from as I&#8217;ve mentioned them on this blog before! <span style="font-weight: bold;">Am I still being too picky???</span><br />
</span><span style="font-family:verdana;"><br />
</span> <span style="font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:78%;">*Note that all these characteristics can apply to men, so ladies, feel free to use this check list as well!</span><br />
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