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		<title>Uniterra Leave for Change Volunteer Project in Nepal</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Mar 2009 00:05:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ian Selvarajah</dc:creator>
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What is &#8220;Leave for Change&#8221;?
<p>Leave for Change is a subprogram of Uniterra, one of Canada&#8217;s leading international volunteer programs. The program offers individuals and companies the opportunity to contribute towards the achievement of the Millennium Development Goals (MDGs). While Uniterra offers longer term projects, the Leave for Change program is unique in that [...]]]></description>
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<h2>What is &#8220;Leave for Change&#8221;?</h2>
<p>Leave for Change is a subprogram of Uniterra, one of Canada&#8217;s leading international volunteer programs. The program offers individuals and companies the opportunity to contribute towards the achievement of the Millennium Development Goals (MDGs). While Uniterra offers longer term projects, the Leave for Change program is unique in that it offers <strong>shorter projects that last 2-4 weeks</strong>. These are well suited for professionals who may not be able to take leaves of absence, but would like to offer their expertise as a volunteer. For more details on how the program works for employers and employees and how you can get involved, please visit the Uniterra website at <a href="http://www.uniterra.org">www.uniterra.org</a>.</p>
<h2>Can someone make a difference in 2 to 4 weeks?</h2>
<p>This is the most commonly asked question and the answer is &#8220;<strong><em>Yes!</em></strong>&#8221; The key strength, and what makes short term mandates work, is <strong>focus</strong>. Since the partners know the volunteer is only there for a short while, everyone works <strong>more efficiently to maximize their time</strong>. Most people don&#8217;t have the same sense of urgency to get things done when a volunteer is on a longer term project.</p>
<p>Knowing some of the complexities and challenges in humanitarian work, I knew I had big shoes to fill when the organizers kept telling me that the last short term volunteers were incredible! In the end, everyone was pleased with the results and I received these kind words from the partner I worked with:</p>
<blockquote><p><em>&#8220;Your courage to choose a country that experienced a decade long civil war, diligence to get things done rightfully, a skill-set to adapt to a new environment and upbeat and pleasant personal traits in combination mitigated all challenges to make the program successful.&#8221;</em></p></blockquote>
<h2>What was your mandate?</h2>
<p>The partner organization and I offered a &#8220;<a href="http://ianselvarajah.com/2008/12/social-entrepreneurship-business.html">Business development and social entrepreneurship awareness</a>&#8221; seminar to 8 of the largest NGOs in Nepal. The NGOs in attendance dealt with a range of social issues such as healthcare, energy, finance, forestry, media, etc. The participants also varied in age and experience so the audience was quite diverse. We presented business concepts in ICT, marketing and finance as well as recommendations around <strong>potential income streams to minimize donor dependence</strong>. The feedback received after the seminar indicated that it was a great learning experience for them.</p>
<p>Leave for Change mandates are focused on capacity building, so unlike a <a href="http://ianselvarajah.com/2005/06/getting-roof-on.html">reconstruction mission</a> I did after the Tsunami in Sri Lanka, this was more of a knowledge transfer/educational project. While this project wasn&#8217;t in the field at the <a href="http://ianselvarajah.com/2005/06/sri-lankan-showers.html">grassroots level</a>, as many volunteer projects are, the transfer of skills was still a very satisfying experience.</p>
<h2>Who did you work with?</h2>
<p>My project was a multi-partner placement; however, I worked primarily with <a href="http://www.magnus.com.np/">Magnus Consulting</a>, a social enterprise based in Nepal. Magnus has only been active in Nepal for 4 years, but, arguably, they&#8217;ve done more for the country than some NGOs that have been there much longer. Their current focus is to bring ICT to local farmers in rural areas of Nepal.</p>
<p>The founders&#8217; courage and determination to push forward in a country that is experiencing significant political change is inspiring. Their core values of integrity, transparency, good governance and efficiency in everything they do, make Magnus a good example of why <strong>social enterprises are the way of the future</strong> in driving social change.</p>
<h2>Would you recommend this program to others?</h2>
<p>Absolutely! After my experience with Tsunami relief work in Sri Lanka, I feel everyone, at some point, should volunteer in a developing country. My experience in Nepal further cemented that belief. A short term Leave for Change project is <strong>ideal as it allows you to sample volunteerism</strong>. Although humanitarian work isn&#8217;t meant for everyone, Leave for Change is a great way to get your feet wet! It&#8217;s an amazing experience both personally and professionally; I highly recommend it!</p>
<p>If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask as I&#8217;m happy to share my experience!</p>
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		<title>Details of My Fire Accident in Thailand</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Feb 2009 02:04:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ian Selvarajah</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">Those of you who have me on Facebook, might have guessed from my status a few weeks ago that I had an incident in Thailand. The main picture for this entry was going to be the picture my friend took about 10-15mins after the accident, but some people found it a little gross and preferred a warning. So, instead of the pic automatically showing up, please <a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SYZQoYQXi9I/AAAAAAAAAaQ/9j58pOIGaIg/s1600-h/Burn_15Mins_Later_SM.JPG">click here</a> to see it.<br /></span><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;font-family:verdana;font-size:180%;"  >FAQ</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:verdana;" >Were you in that big club fire in Bangkok??</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);font-family:verdana;" >Nope. This happened at a big new year’s beach party in <a href="http://kohphangan.com/">Koh Phangan</a></span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:verdana;" >What happened?</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);font-family:verdana;" >We noticed some people were having trouble starting a bonfire and being a nice person, I offered to help out. It ended up being quite big. I was a little too close to the fire when someone accidentally bumped into me and I fell in. I jumped back up within a split second, brushed the embers (and my first layer of skin) off, but the damage was already done: 1st and 2nd degree burns in a split second! </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:verdana;" >Were you alone?</span><br /><span style="font-family:verdana;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);">Thank God I was not. I had 2 amazing volunteers from Nepal that were with me and who took great care of me. Craig was the one holding my arm up while the doctors peeled the skin off during the treatment; I probably couldn’t have gone through that on my own! Craig and Moose- thanks again for everything!!!</span></p>
<p></span> <span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:verdana;" >That must have hurt like hell!?</span><br /><span style="font-family:verdana;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);">The burn itself wasn’t that bad, probably due to the shock and the adrenaline. The doc mentioned that I lost about 8%-9% skin surface area and usually at 10% people tend to go into shock, so I was probably just on the borderline.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);">The treatment afterward was absolutely excruciating!! I believe it was on the third day when the pain was so bad that I was actually gritting my teeth and almost screaming in pain. Craig told me after the fact that he was staying strong for me, but that it was really too much to watch.</span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:verdana;" >Are you smiling while they&#8217;re peeling off your skin in the pic?!</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);font-family:verdana;" >Although I was trying to maintain my good humour and smile, I think it’s more of a wince from the pain as the soot, sand and skin came off.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:verdana;" >What was going through your mind when this happened?</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);font-family:verdana;" >Honestly – although it was pretty bad, I’m <a href="http://the1truecoolguy.blogspot.com/2006/11/when-bad-things-happen.html">very quick to turn a negative into a positive</a>, so I was immediately thanking God that it wasn’t worse, that my face was fine, that I wasn’t alone and figured that in the worst case, if it scars, then it’d be time to get that sleeve tattoo! <img src='http://ianselvarajah.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:verdana;" >Is it going to scar?</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);font-family:verdana;" >According to the docs, I should hopefully get the colour back in about 4 months and it might leave some marks for a few years, but gradually, most of it should be back to normal.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:verdana;">The good news it that the doctors (and nurses) in Thailand and Nepal did a great job and everyone here says it&#8217;s healing up very well. Here are some pictures from exactly a month later when most of the skin has come back. If you&#8217;re wondering why my arm is shiny, my uncle (also a doctor) recommended I put olive oil on the arm to help with the [risk of] scarring. Yes, I&#8217;m also using vitamin E cream! <img src='http://ianselvarajah.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </span></span></p>
<p><center><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SYZSYvsSVDI/AAAAAAAAAaY/FiShXNIzNeo/s1600-h/01_Feb1Fullarm_SM.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 97px; height: 135px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SYZSYvsSVDI/AAAAAAAAAaY/FiShXNIzNeo/s320/01_Feb1Fullarm_SM.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5298012596720522290" border="0" /></a> <a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SYZSxVvWfAI/AAAAAAAAAao/lcj-pNBOKjk/s1600-h/03_Feb1_Elbow_SM.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SYZSxVvWfAI/AAAAAAAAAao/lcj-pNBOKjk/s320/03_Feb1_Elbow_SM.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5298013019250785282" border="0" /></a> <a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SYZSxWrc3hI/AAAAAAAAAag/LLtgIfTJaA8/s1600-h/02_Feb1_Insidearm_SM.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SYZSxWrc3hI/AAAAAAAAAag/LLtgIfTJaA8/s320/02_Feb1_Insidearm_SM.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5298013019502861842" border="0" /></a></center></p>
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		<title>First Day in Bangkok</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Dec 2008 05:36:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ian Selvarajah</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I made it safe and sound to Bangkok and interestingly enough, I met a fellow Montrealer in Kathmandu who was coming on the same flight as me, so I had a travel buddy for a couple of days! I don&#8217;t have much time, but I wanted to share some pictures from Bangkok with you:</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">I made it safe and sound to Bangkok and interestingly enough, I met a fellow Montrealer in Kathmandu who was coming on the same flight as me, so I had a travel buddy for a couple of days!</span><span style="font-family:verdana;"> I don&#8217;t have much time, but I wanted to share some pictures from Bangkok with you:</span></p>
<p></span><center  style="font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW1tBV-X7I/AAAAAAAAAYc/vaoJaLz4DlA/s1600-h/01_MBKShoppingMall.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW1tBV-X7I/AAAAAAAAAYc/vaoJaLz4DlA/s320/01_MBKShoppingMall.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5284329522848489394" border="0" /></a>   <a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW1t-DyoSI/AAAAAAAAAYk/KQ6DhveKo1M/s1600-h/02_MBKShoppingMall.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW1t-DyoSI/AAAAAAAAAYk/KQ6DhveKo1M/s320/02_MBKShoppingMall.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5284329539146785058" border="0" /></a></span></center><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">We first went to the MBK mall- I felt like I was back at the Eaton&#8217;s center except that there was also a fairly large flea market-like area where they were selling tons of random stuff, there were booths with thousands of cell phones, cameras and MP3 players of all shapes and sizes. I also had a great meal in the food court for about $4.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:verdana;">After we finished up at the mall, we were going to visit the royal palace but it was closed. Some nice tuktuk drivers offered to take us around to a few tourists sites for 100bhat. We didn&#8217;t realize that the &#8220;scam&#8221; was that they would take us to some fashion store where they would try to convince me to get a tailor made suit. I actually looked at some of the designs and fabrics, but apparently not long enough for the driver to get his gas voucher (they pay his gas for bringing people to the store I guess). He was quite angry, but hey- some you win, some you lose!</span></p>
<p><center><a style="font-family: verdana;" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW1uVOw22I/AAAAAAAAAYs/ifdbgDTLic8/s1600-h/03_FountainsBridges.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW1uVOw22I/AAAAAAAAAYs/ifdbgDTLic8/s320/03_FountainsBridges.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5284329545366821730" border="0" /></a><span style="font-family:verdana;"> </span><a style="font-family: verdana;" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW1urZSD9I/AAAAAAAAAY0/Lwh2gt_5BFI/s1600-h/04_SculptureCloseup.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW1urZSD9I/AAAAAAAAAY0/Lwh2gt_5BFI/s320/04_SculptureCloseup.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5284329551316520914" border="0" /></a><br /><a style="font-family: verdana;" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW234Zqv3I/AAAAAAAAAY8/0mlC8IeYv8k/s1600-h/05_DetailedWindows.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW234Zqv3I/AAAAAAAAAY8/0mlC8IeYv8k/s320/05_DetailedWindows.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5284330808938250098" border="0" /></a><span style="font-family:verdana;"> </span><a style="font-family: verdana;" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW24b9fOFI/AAAAAAAAAZE/U8Yhp3F1xhU/s1600-h/06_DragonSculpture.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW24b9fOFI/AAAAAAAAAZE/U8Yhp3F1xhU/s320/06_DragonSculpture.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5284330818483730514" border="0" /></a></center><span style="font-family:verdana;">Some pictures from the </span><a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wat_Benchamabophit">Wat Benchamabophit</a><span style="font-family:verdana;"> temple which is also known as the Marble Temple.</span></p>
<p><center><a style="font-family: verdana;" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW24iWOMyI/AAAAAAAAAZM/ItYP-py_cnM/s1600-h/07_Entrance.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW24iWOMyI/AAAAAAAAAZM/ItYP-py_cnM/s320/07_Entrance.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5284330820198085410" border="0" /></a><span style="font-family:verdana;"> </span><a style="font-family: verdana;" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW25DVZXcI/AAAAAAAAAZU/-es_dbj5CqA/s1600-h/08_BuddhaStatues.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW25DVZXcI/AAAAAAAAAZU/-es_dbj5CqA/s320/08_BuddhaStatues.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5284330829052992962" border="0" /></a></center><span style="font-family:verdana;">They also had several statues of Buddha in various poses from different eras and areas of Asia.</span></p>
<p><center><a style="font-family: verdana;" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW4HtyyTtI/AAAAAAAAAZc/6woHZAX7YBI/s1600-h/09_MonkPraying.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW4HtyyTtI/AAAAAAAAAZc/6woHZAX7YBI/s320/09_MonkPraying.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5284332180480347858" border="0" /></a><span style="font-family:verdana;"> </span><a style="font-family: verdana;" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW4ICaIRJI/AAAAAAAAAZk/qbmiEikww3c/s1600-h/10_MonksTemple.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW4ICaIRJI/AAAAAAAAAZk/qbmiEikww3c/s320/10_MonksTemple.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5284332186014074002" border="0" /></a></center><span style="font-family:verdana;">When we arrived, we saw an area that said: &#8220;Do not enter&#8221;, so of course, we didn&#8217;t. As we walked around and saw the all the buddha statues, we came upon this door. We walked in very quietly since there were monks meditating and as we got to the other side, we realized this was the same &#8220;Do not enter&#8221; room! Oops.</span></p>
<p><center><a style="font-family: verdana;" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW4InLtNOI/AAAAAAAAAZs/gh5Y13hHR88/s1600-h/11_StandingBuddha.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW4InLtNOI/AAAAAAAAAZs/gh5Y13hHR88/s320/11_StandingBuddha.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5284332195885692130" border="0" /></a><span style="font-family:verdana;"> </span><a style="font-family: verdana;" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW4JU6pIfI/AAAAAAAAAZ0/_lrY00GZ4I8/s1600-h/12_StandingBuddha.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW4JU6pIfI/AAAAAAAAAZ0/_lrY00GZ4I8/s320/12_StandingBuddha.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5284332208162152946" border="0" /></a></center><span style="font-family:verdana;">The next stop was </span><a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://www.bangkokguidebook.com/temples/wat-indrawihan-the-standing-buddha.html">Wat Indrawihan</a><span style="font-family:verdana;">, the temple of the [giant] standing buddha, but not before we got dra<br />
gged into another custom tailor shop. I believe he said the statue was around 30 meters tall!</span></p>
<p><center><a style="font-family: verdana;" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW5UgqP2oI/AAAAAAAAAZ8/zWsNr0p-pZI/s1600-h/13_KhaoSanXmas.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW5UgqP2oI/AAAAAAAAAZ8/zWsNr0p-pZI/s320/13_KhaoSanXmas.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5284333499804801666" border="0" /></a><span style="font-family:verdana;"> </span><a style="font-family: verdana;" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW5Vg9v4CI/AAAAAAAAAaE/GhuR_aTVvrE/s1600-h/14_KhaoSanXmasParade.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SVW5Vg9v4CI/AAAAAAAAAaE/GhuR_aTVvrE/s320/14_KhaoSanXmasParade.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5284333517066461218" border="0" /></a></center><span style="font-family:verdana;">I&#8217;ll wrap up with some pictures from </span><a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Khao_San_Road">Khao San road</a><span style="font-family:verdana;">, which is one of the main tourist strips here in Bangkok. The second picture is great- this gentleman is quite the character and apparently he&#8217;s been doing this for years: He rides around in his suped-up tuktuk blaring Christmas music from artists such as </span><a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Boney_M">Boney M</a><span style="font-family:verdana;">. I was reminded of Christmas back home! <img src='http://ianselvarajah.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </span><br /></span></p>
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		<title>Social Entrepreneurship / Business Development Seminar</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Dec 2008 06:22:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ian Selvarajah</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>After some confusion around the audience of the seminar I was scheduled to give, we decided that instead of an ICT awareness training, we would be doing a business development seminar with a focus on social entrepreneurship and ICT instead.</p>
<p>The training was on Friday at the Tibet Hotel in Lazimpat. 30 people from 8 different [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">After some confusion around the audience of the seminar I was scheduled to give, we decided that instead of an <a href="http://the1truecoolguy.blogspot.com/2008/12/first-day-on-job-at-magnus-consulting.html">ICT awareness training</a>, we would be doing a <span style="font-weight: bold;">business development seminar</span> with a focus on social entrepreneurship and ICT instead.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:verdana;">The training was on Friday at the Tibet Hotel in Lazimpat. 30 people from 8 different NGOs were scheduled to attend. In the end, only about 20 from 6 showed up, but I was still pleased with the turnout. I was also happy to see that majority of the audience was fairly young, so most were very receptive to a new way of thinking about NGOs and social entrepreneurship. The NGOs that were present were </span><a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://www.ceciasia.org/nepal.htm">CECI-Nepal</a><span style="font-family:verdana;">, </span><a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://www.fecofun.org/">FECOFUN</a><span style="font-family:verdana;">, </span><a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://www.fairtradegroupnepal.org/">FTG</a><span style="font-family:verdana;">, </span><a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://www.idsnepal.org/ids/index.html">IDS</a><span style="font-family:verdana;">, </span><a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://www.himalayanbiotrade.com/">HBTL</a><span style="font-family:verdana;">, </span><a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://www.blogger.com/www.worldview.org.np/">WorldView</a><span style="font-family:verdana;">, MCF (part of </span><a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://www.nefscun.org.np/">NEFSCUN</a><span style="font-family:verdana;">) and </span><a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://www.ntagonline.org/">NTAG</a><span style="font-family:verdana;">.</span></p>
<p></span><center><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SU8wra3iYcI/AAAAAAAAAYM/IU5LerNV2nc/s1600-h/01_TrainingRoom.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SU8wra3iYcI/AAAAAAAAAYM/IU5LerNV2nc/s320/01_TrainingRoom.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5282494410433651138" border="0" /></a> <a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SU8wrteGHeI/AAAAAAAAAYU/AXHUA3Io8m4/s1600-h/02_Tika_Ian.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SU8wrteGHeI/AAAAAAAAAYU/AXHUA3Io8m4/s320/02_Tika_Ian.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5282494415427214818" border="0" /></a></center><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">Here&#8217;s a picture of the training room and then Tika and I at the end of the day! </span></span><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" ><span style="font-family:verdana;"><br />Results</span></span><br /><span style="font-family:verdana;">I tallied up the feedback form results and the overall rating was 3.46/4, so <span style="font-weight: bold;">87%</span>. Most of the less than positive results were because some of the people felt the training wasn&#8217;t relevant to them. Tika (my counterpart) and I knew this would be a challenge because social entrepreneurship is essentially a completely new way of approaching humanitarian work and we figured there would be some resistance to change.</span>  <span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" ><span style="font-family:verdana;"></p>
<p>Making History</span></span>  <span style="font-family:verdana;"><br />Once everyone left, Tika said: <span style="font-style: italic;">&#8220;I hope you realize we made history in Nepal today; no one has done a social entrepreneurship awareness training with this many NGOs at once!&#8221;</span>. Unfortunately, at that moment, I really <span style="font-weight: bold;">wished I could have done more</span> or been a little more focused while I was preparing the training. In any case, the objective was to plant the seed and hopefully more organizations will consider social entrepreneurship as a business model.</span>  <span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" ><span style="font-family:verdana;"></p>
<p>Thank Yous</span></span>  <span style="font-family:verdana;"><br />Now that my mandate is officially done, there are a few &#8220;Thank you&#8221;s that need to be said:</span>  <span style="font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-weight: bold;"></p>
<p>Anne-Jennifer</span> &#8211; The person in my office who&#8217;s in charge of organizing the Leave for Change program. She seemed happy when I was selected and is always encouraging me to be an ambassador for Deloitte. She also provided some Deloitte paraphernalia that I was able to give as prizes during the training and as gifts to some people in the offices here!</span>  <span style="font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-weight: bold;"></p>
<p>CECI Montreal and Nepal</span> &#8211; Specifically; Nathalie, Geetika and Hari. Everyone was incredibly helpful in getting everything organized and everything went much more smoothly than I expected! This was an incredible opportunity to do something I love and I was happy to be selected for it!</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:verdana;"><a href="http://www.magnus.com.np/"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Magnus Consulting</span></a> &#8211; My counterpart Tika was a really great support throughout the process and I was very happy to work with them. From day 1, I was amazed with how focused and driven this organization is in terms of making a social impact. They&#8217;ve only been established since 2004, but I would argue that they have made more progress than some of the organizations that have been around for much, much longer! Now do you see why <span style="font-weight: bold;">social entrepreneurship is a better model</span>??</span>  <span style="font-family:verdana;"></p>
<p><a href="http://www.pascaleleblanc.com/"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Pascale Leblanc</span></a> &#8211; Pascale was my pre-departure cultural awareness instructor and she has been incredibly helpful long after the initial training was completed. I&#8217;m grateful she was <span style="font-weight: bold;">very proactive in offering help</span>! She sent me some good information about teaching in a different culture and she really saved me when it came to creating a feedback form for the training!</span>  <span style="font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-weight: bold;"></p>
<p>The Uniterra volunteers</span> &#8211; Craig, Monica, Moose, Paul, Salome, Charles, Courtney, Anne, John, Cathy and anyone I might have forgotten. Being around other Canadians with similar objectives of making a social change was refreshing and I was glad that those who attended the seminar were able to help guide some of the discussions. Thank you!</p>
<p>Now&#8230;off to Bangkok, Thailand for my <span style="font-weight: bold;">real</span> vacation!!<br /></span></span></p>
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		<title>Nepal City Tour Lalitpur / Patan</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Dec 2008 07:58:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Last Saturday, I was taken for a city tour to 3 locations around Kathmandu. Here are some pictures of the first place we went to called Lalitpur. As with most pictures on this blog, you can click on them to see a larger version.</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">Last Saturday, I was taken for a city tour to 3 locations around Kathmandu. Here are some pictures of the first place we went to called </span><a href="http://www.lalitpur.org.np/e_home.php"><span style="font-family:verdana;">Lalitpur</span></a><span style="font-family:verdana;">. As with most pictures on this blog, you can click on them to see a larger version.</p>
<p></span></span><center><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUH7Y-Jr7gI/AAAAAAAAAWs/jgxgMWLWv8c/s1600-h/01_Lalitpur.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUH7Y-Jr7gI/AAAAAAAAAWs/jgxgMWLWv8c/s320/01_Lalitpur.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5278776644673990146" border="0" /></a>     <a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUH7ZL7cLCI/AAAAAAAAAW0/AeI6ugsroj4/s1600-h/02_LalitpurBell.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUH7ZL7cLCI/AAAAAAAAAW0/AeI6ugsroj4/s320/02_LalitpurBell.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5278776648372333602" border="0" /></a></center><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">This is a view of Lalitpur and the big bell</span></span><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;"> is what was used to warn the king of invading forces (I think that&#8217;s what the guide said?). Lalit means &#8220;Art&#8221; and Pur means &#8220;Palace&#8221; so Lalitpur is also known as the City of Fine Arts.</span></span></p>
<p><center><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUH_oUhNtmI/AAAAAAAAAW8/DyHh3j8nWSY/s1600-h/03_KingsCastle.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUH_oUhNtmI/AAAAAAAAAW8/DyHh3j8nWSY/s320/03_KingsCastle.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5278781306422802018" border="0" /></a>   <a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUH_o-iGnBI/AAAAAAAAAXE/BykrmRgKu7g/s1600-h/04_DetailedDoor.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUH_o-iGnBI/AAAAAAAAAXE/BykrmRgKu7g/s320/04_DetailedDoor.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5278781317700819986" border="0" /></a></center><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">This is the entrance to the palace. I&#8217;m always amazed at the level of detail of the sculptures on the temples!</p>
<p><center><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUH_pkM-dQI/AAAAAAAAAXU/Bws4YdTMnGg/s1600-h/06_Temple.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUH_pkM-dQI/AAAAAAAAAXU/Bws4YdTMnGg/s320/06_Temple.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5278781327812752642" border="0" /></a> <span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUH_pE1J5VI/AAAAAAAAAXM/f4KUlKOMCfE/s1600-h/05_TempleMouldings.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUH_pE1J5VI/AAAAAAAAAXM/f4KUlKOMCfE/s320/05_TempleMouldings.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5278781319391339858" border="0" /> </a></span></span></center></span></span><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">More temples and sculptures</p>
<p><center><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUIC2le183I/AAAAAAAAAXk/ckV-kWeq05g/s1600-h/08_GoldenTempleEntranceSculpture.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUIC2le183I/AAAAAAAAAXk/ckV-kWeq05g/s320/08_GoldenTempleEntranceSculpture.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5278784850029310834" border="0" /></a><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;"> </span></span><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUIC2JkcrdI/AAAAAAAAAXc/h04yt0Ce3gI/s1600-h/07_GoldenTempleEntrance.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUIC2JkcrdI/AAAAAAAAAXc/h04yt0Ce3gI/s320/07_GoldenTempleEntrance.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5278784842536627666" border="0" /></a></span></span></center></span></span><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">This is the entrance to the Golden Temple. Something interesting: Since the cow is a sacred animal here, if you&#8217;re wearing leather shoes, you have to take them off before going into the temple!</p>
<p><center><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUIC3C6y58I/AAAAAAAAAX0/e9qqlvpca_k/s1600-h/10_5Roofs.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUIC3C6y58I/AAAAAAAAAX0/e9qqlvpca_k/s320/10_5Roofs.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5278784857931179970" border="0" /></a><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;"> </span></span><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUIC22jb0lI/AAAAAAAAAXs/dSUaKxMmK5M/s1600-h/09_GoldenTempleBuddha.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUIC22jb0lI/AAAAAAAAAXs/dSUaKxMmK5M/s320/09_GoldenTempleBuddha.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5278784854611972690" border="0" /></a></span></span></center></span></span><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">Here&#8217;s a temple with 5 roofs and a statue of Buddha.</p>
<p><center><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUIVrJ6ACOI/AAAAAAAAAYE/OBxn-r5cSc0/s1600-h/12_PoojaLineup.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUIVrJ6ACOI/AAAAAAAAAYE/OBxn-r5cSc0/s320/12_PoojaLineup.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5278805544369391842" border="0" /></a> <span><span><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUIVq39jMGI/AAAAAAAAAX8/ma5Yy9b7biE/s1600-h/11_BuddhistAltar.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 97px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SUIVq39jMGI/AAAAAAAAAX8/ma5Yy9b7biE/s320/11_BuddhistAltar.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5278805539552440418" border="0" /></a></span></span></span></span><br /></center>All these people are lining up to offer a sacrifice in the temple and the 2nd picture is an altar where people will come and offer fruits/coconuts to the gods.<br /></span></span></p>
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		<title>First 24+ Hours in Nepal</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Dec 2008 02:42:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ian Selvarajah</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m currently in Nepal working on a volunteer project with CECI. I&#8217;ll give you all the details when I have a little more time, but here&#8217;s what&#8217;s been happening so far (it&#8217;s long, but bear with me, it&#8217;s 2 days worth!): </p>
<p>December 4th</p>
<p>17:05 &#8211; Landing in Nepal; I&#8217;ve been traveling since the evening of Dec. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><center><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 131px; height: 160px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/STnkXe4CPEI/AAAAAAAAAWk/Cvxiqz1uqAQ/s320/490px-Flag_of_Nepal.svg.png" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5276499530517462082" border="0" /></center><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">I&#8217;m currently in <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nepal">Nepal</a> working on a volunteer project with CECI. I&#8217;ll give you all the details when I have a little more time, but here&#8217;s what&#8217;s been happening so far (it&#8217;s long, but bear with me, it&#8217;s 2 days worth!):</span> <span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" ><span style="font-family:verdana;"></p>
<p>December 4th</span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:verdana;">17:05 &#8211; Landing in Nepal; I&#8217;ve been traveling since the evening of Dec. 2nd, but seeing the beautiful mountain ranges from the aircraft makes it all worthwhile! Oh, and <span style="font-weight: bold;">I was bumped up to business class</span> for the Doha &#8211; Kathmandu leg of my journey.</span><br /><span style="font-family:verdana;"><br />17:10 &#8211; I step off the aircraft and take a deep breath. The air feels dense, but the smell is typically South Asian. It&#8217;s hard to describe, but if you&#8217;ve traveled to these places, you know it. It&#8217;s something like <span style="font-weight: bold;">a cross between burning rubber and vegetation</span>.</span>  <span style="font-family:verdana;"></p>
<p>17:15 &#8211; The shuttle from the aircraft to the terminal takes us 15 seconds. I could have walked. I ask for a one month tourist visa and explain that my return flight is actually on January 18th, but that I&#8217;ll be leaving for a few weeks in between. He tells me to get a $100 2 month visa instead of a $40 30 day one. The German gentleman in front of me tells me he&#8217;s overheard my conversation and recommends I get the $100 one since it&#8217;ll come out cheaper. He must have missed something: $40*2 is still $80. <span style="font-weight: bold;">I took the $40 visa</span>.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:verdana;">18:00 &#8211; After waiting a while for the luggage it ends up coming out. I&#8217;m surprised that several people have <span style="font-weight: bold;">TVs in their checked luggage</span> and more impressed at how long it&#8217;s taking people to pick them up off the belt. I&#8217;m also quite pleased that my stuff made it intact through all the connections (Montreal &#8211;> London &#8211;> Doha &#8211;> Kathmandu).</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:verdana;">18:15 &#8211; The CECI-Nepal people are waiting for me at the exit. I see the sign: <span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">&#8220;Uniterra &#8211; Ian Selvarajah&#8221;</span>. Although I&#8217;ve traveled a lot, it&#8217;s my first time landing somewhere and having someone holding up my name card. I&#8217;ve always wanted that! Ha ha</p>
<p>18:20 &#8211; I meet Hari, the Uniterra program director who puts a <span style="font-weight: bold;">scarf and Mala (flower garland) around my neck to welcome me</span>. He tells me despite the long travel I still look fresh. I tell him that due to all my travel last year, I was fortunate enough to have lounge access so I took a shower when I was in London Heathrow.</p>
<p>19:00 &#8211; Arrive at the hotel Tibet where I&#8217;m staying for a couple of days. The driving is like Sri Lanka, I might even say slightly worse. We have a few near misses, but this is how it is; I missed the times <span style="font-weight: bold;">I was </span><a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://the1truecoolguy.blogspot.com/2006/04/driving-in-sri-lanka.html">driving in Sri Lanka</a>. There&#8217;s nothing like a near head-on collision to make you feel alive!</p>
<p>19:30 &#8211; Although I&#8217;m tired, I need to find an adapter for my laptop and other electronics. As I walk out, the front desk tells me I have a message. I find it curious that a Debi has said: <span style="font-style: italic;">&#8220;If you want to knock on my door when you are settled, feel free.&#8221;</span>; I ask them if Debi works for CECI. They hesitate, but say &#8220;Yes.&#8221;.</p>
<p>19:40 &#8211; I find a &#8220;department store&#8221; and purchase an adapter for 50Rs. (< $1). I briefly meet a girl who looks western and chat for a few minutes. She tells me she's been in Nepal for about a month and that there are plenty of good restaurants around the hotel. </p>
<p>19:50 &#8211; Get back to the hotel and again ask if Debi works for CECI; they say yes, so I go knock on the door. Debi is the other Leave for Change volunteer that had arrived on Saturday. She tells me that she has the bad news that <span style="font-weight: bold;">we&#8217;re being picked up @ 07:15 to clean up the streets for <a href="http://www.worldvolunteerweb.org/int-l-volunteer-day.html">International Volunteers&#8217; Day</a></span>. No problem.</p>
<p>20:30 &#8211; Make sure everything is in my suitcases, shower and go to bed.</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" >December 5th</span></p>
<p>06:00 &#8211; Wake up, shower, shave and get dressed. I was told that we have a volunteers&#8217; cocktail at 17:00 and I won&#8217;t have time to change in between. Good news is that it&#8217;s supposed to be casual.</p>
<p>07:30 &#8211; The CECI jeep comes to pick us up. I meet John, Monica, Jaclyn and Salome who are all Canadian volunteers that have been in Nepal for more than 6 months. They all seem <span style="font-weight: bold;">very nice and fun </span>despite how early it is.</p>
<p>08:00 &#8211; <span style="font-weight: bold;">Volunteers from several countries are all gathered around</span>- it&#8217;s quite a sight to see! A few people make the comment that I&#8217;m clearly over-dressed to be picking up garbage. I agree. Everyone is also surprised that I arrived the night before and am <span style="font-weight: bold;">cleaning garbage on my very first day</span> a few hours later!</p>
<p>10:00 &#8211; Still walking around cleaning up the streets. I notice there are several people much more skilled than we are- the actual street cleaners were cleaning with us. Monica is quite popular with the crowd because she can speak some Nepali; she explains that &#8220;Ke&#8221; means &#8220;what&#8221; and &#8220;Ho&#8221; is &#8220;is&#8221;. <span style="font-style: italic;">&#8220;Topeko nam ke ho?&#8221;</span> (Your name, what is?). I learn to say: <span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;">&#8220;Mero nam Ian ho&#8221;</span><span style="font-weight: bold;"> (My name Ian is)</span> and ask a few people around what their names are. The language sounds a lot like Hindi.</p>
<p>10:45 &#8211; Some of the street kids perform a play for all the volunteers. It was a little disturbing as these young kids were portraying what life is like in the city. Although I couldn&#8217;t understand anything, I got rough idea. The temperature is about <span style="font-weight: bold;">20 degrees celsius</span>. Not bad for a winter day!</p>
<p>11:30 &#8211; I haven&#8217;t eaten anything since lunch on the plane the day before, so John, Salome, Debi and I find a place to eat. I try <span style="font-weight: bold;">Momos</span> for the first time; they&#8217;re like dumplings and quite delicious!</p>
<p>13:00 &#8211; We head back to the CECI office for my official orientation. It&#8217;s actually colder in the office than outside! Geetika, the program director introduces me to the people in the office and explains some of the Nepali etiquette. She figures I should be OK given my Sri Lankan background. I explain that my only questions revolve around my specific mandate as it&#8217;s still not clear <span style="font-weight: bold;">what exactly I have to do here</span>. She assures me that we will sort out the details of the mandate during our meeting with the partner organization on Monday morning. She also tells me how great the past Leave for Change volunteers have been, so <span style="font-weight: bold;">I have some big shoes to fill</span>!</p>
<p>15:00 &#8211; Hari gives me a brief historial overview of CECI-Nepal and the Uniterra program and the work they&#8217;re doing is actually quite amazing. The biggest difference between this project and the work I did in Sri Lanka is that these are <span style="font-weight: bold;">more sustainable projects</span> in the sense that <span style="f<br />
ont-weight: bold;">we&#8217;re transferring knowledge and skills </span>rather than just building things and leaving.</p>
<p>16:00 &#8211; I meet Moose (nickname, of course), Craig, Courtney and Noureen- more volunteers that have showed up for the cocktail. <span style="font-weight: bold;">Everyone I meet is really great.</span> All these people are working on really neat projects and most of them have left their existing jobs to do something in another country. I&#8217;m always impressed meeting and talking to people like this.</p>
<p>17:00 &#8211; We get to the cocktail and I meet several more volunteers Paul, Anne Marie, Kelly, Charles, Cathy (I&#8217;m having trouble remembering more names&#8230;). One of the girls who lives close to the hotel was <span style="font-weight: bold;">leaving at 18:30</span>, so I figured I&#8217;d leave with her.</p>
<p>20:00 &#8211; Several glasses of wine later and <span style="font-weight: bold;">I&#8217;m still at the party.</span> I tell them I&#8217;m from Montreal, so despite the mild jetlag, I&#8217;ll come out to party&#8230;</p>
<p>~20:30 &#8211; We leave to a place called G&#8217;s Terrace and have a great time. I&#8217;m told the live band is  one of the best in Nepal and they&#8217;re quite good! I&#8217;m drinking water by this point because I have to be up early the next day.</p>
<p>23:00 &#8211; Bars close at 23:00, so I&#8217;m getting ready to leave when the volunteers tell me there&#8217;s another place they always go to.</p>
<p>23:10 &#8211; Next bar: Tom and Jerry&#8217;s (those are actually the owners&#8217; names). Some are surprised I&#8217;m still standing, others are telling me their first nights were like this too, so I&#8217;m glad I stuck around! I am, afterall <span style="font-weight: bold;">representing Montreal</span>, right? <img src='http://ianselvarajah.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" >December 6th</span></p>
<p>00:15 &#8211; A cab asks for 400Rs. to take us all home. Craig has been here for a while, so he knows better and gets it down to 250. <span style="font-weight: bold;">5 of us pile into a tiny Suzuki Swift cab</span> and head home.</p>
<p>00:30 &#8211; Get to the hotel, lights are all off and the front is locked up. I&#8217;m concerned for about 3 seconds and knock on the door. Someone eventually opens it up.</p>
<p>00:55 &#8211; Finally got the internet in my room working a little, so I send an email update to the family, update my Facebook status (a must!) and get to bed.</p>
<p>06:30 &#8211; Wake up, shower, download the videos to the PC (I&#8217;ll post these asap)</p>
<p>Now &#8211; I&#8217;m getting picked up in 45 minutes for a city tour. I&#8217;ve heard it&#8217;s really great, so I&#8217;m looking forward to that. Sorry for the long post, the next ones should be shorter and have more pics!!</p>
<p>Cheers!<br /></span></span></p>
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		<title>How to Get a Free Dinner&#8230;AND Lunch</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 May 2008 02:44:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ian Selvarajah</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m constantly amazed at how quickly time flies!! I can&#8217;t believe it&#8217;s almost the end of May already! Anyhow, here&#8217;s another story from my latest trip to Toronto&#8230;</p>
<p> We went out for dinner to East Side Mario&#8217;s for my cousin&#8217;s birthday. Very long story short (no exaggeration whatsoever): the service was the worst I&#8217;d ever [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><center><img src="http://bp0.blogger.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SDYvI6PtPuI/AAAAAAAAAOI/IX3IccO04jA/s320/EastSideMariosLogo.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5203398249593781986" border="0" /></center><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">I&#8217;m constantly amazed at how quickly time flies!! I can&#8217;t believe it&#8217;s almost the end of May already! Anyhow, here&#8217;s another story from my </span><a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://the1truecoolguy.blogspot.com/2008/05/my-first-lesbian-wedding-experience.html">latest trip to Toronto</a><span style="font-family:verdana;">&#8230;</p>
<p></span> <span style="font-family:verdana;">We went out for dinner to <a href="http://www.eastsidemarios.com/">East Side Mario&#8217;s</a> for my cousin&#8217;s birthday. Very long story short (no exaggeration whatsoever): the <span style="font-weight: bold;">service was the worst I&#8217;d ever seen in my life</span>. Everything that could possibly go wrong, went wrong and the &#8220;manager&#8221; who looked like she was 20, was unapologetic throughout.</p>
<p></span> <span style="font-family:verdana;">Before the bill arrived, my cousin&#8217;s fiancée, also named Ian, told us <span style="font-weight: bold;">we weren&#8217;t paying for any of this</span>. Most of us were surprised and although we knew the service was terrible, we didn&#8217;t think he was being serious. He was. Before the waiter arrived with the bill, he said: <span style="font-style: italic;">&#8220;Bring your manager with the bill.&#8221;</span> After another 15 minutes, the waiter and manager showed up&#8230;</p>
<p></span> <span style="font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-style: italic;">&#8220;I&#8217;ve taken the items you didn&#8217;t order or receive off the bill </span><span>[gee, thanks?]</span><span style="font-style: italic;"> and I&#8217;ve given you 15% off the order.&#8221;</span>, the young manager said.</span> <span style="font-family:verdana;"><br />- <span style="font-style: italic;">That&#8217;s not good enough.</span></span><br /><span style="font-family:verdana;">- <span style="font-style: italic;">Well, what do you want?</span> [she had a slight smirk]</span> <span style="font-family:verdana;"><br />- <span style="font-style: italic;">I want you to say: &#8220;I apologize for the terrible service, the meal is on the house and we hope you&#8217;ll consider coming back someday.&#8221;</span></span> <span style="font-family:verdana;"><br />- <span style="font-style: italic;">I&#8217;m sorry, I can&#8217;t do that.</span> [Fair enough, I'm sure she couldn't]</span> <span style="font-family:verdana;"><br />- <span style="font-style: italic;">Well, get me the person who can.</span></span><br /><span style="font-family:verdana;">- <span style="font-style: italic;">That&#8217;s my boss and he&#8217;s not here now.</span></span> <span style="font-family:verdana;"><br />- <span style="font-style: italic;">Get him on the phone then.</span></span>  <span style="font-family:verdana;"></p>
<p>It was only at this point that she realized Ian wasn&#8217;t messing around and <span style="font-weight: bold;">she started apologizing profusely</span> and using words like <span style="font-style: italic;">&#8220;empathize&#8221;</span>. She was kinda&#8217; cute, but I figured this was a bad time to ask if she was on Facebook; <span style="font-weight: bold;">she looked like she was about to cry</span>. In the end, Ian gave her his business card and said: <span style="font-style: italic;">&#8220;Tell your boss to call me tomorrow and I&#8217;ll sort it out with him.&#8221;</span>. Ian didn&#8217;t think the boss would call back, but he did&#8230;</p>
<p></span> <span style="font-family:verdana;">The real manager apologized and said that he realized that <span style="font-weight: bold;">running a restaurant is like running a baby sitting service</span> and that he has to keep closer tabs on his employees. He even invited him to a complimentary lunch to discuss how to <span style="font-weight: bold;">improve business operations</span>!!!</p>
<p></span> <span style="font-family:verdana;">I was quite impressed with how Ian handled the situation, but I&#8217;m not sure if I&#8217;d have the guts to pull off what he did. However, if I experience service THAT terrible again, I&#8217;ll probably give it a shot!</span></span></p>
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		<title>Goodbye Pittsburgh! :(</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Mar 2008 02:49:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Pittsburgh Skyline from Pittsburgh Homes GuideI&#8217;ve been on a project in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania since June 4th, 2007. I just got home from &#8220;the burgh&#8221;, as they lovingly call it, for the last time and am feeling a little sad [surprisingly]!</p>
<p>I felt strange packing my big suitcase, which I always leave in the hotel, this morning. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><center><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://bp0.blogger.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/R9nm64zqD9I/AAAAAAAAAFY/wLBKwVs9VAw/s1600-h/Pittsburgh_Skyline_PittsburghHomesGuide.jpg"><img style="cursor: pointer;" src="http://bp0.blogger.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/R9nm64zqD9I/AAAAAAAAAFY/wLBKwVs9VAw/s320/Pittsburgh_Skyline_PittsburghHomesGuide.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5177423145994948562" border="0" /></a><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;">Pittsburgh Skyline from <a href="http://www.pittsburghhomesguide.com/">Pittsburgh Homes Guide</a></span></span></center><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">I&#8217;ve been on a project in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania since June 4th, 2007. I just got home from &#8220;the burgh&#8221;, as they lovingly call it, for the last time and am feeling a little sad [surprisingly]!</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:verdana;">I felt strange packing my big suitcase, which I always leave in the hotel, this morning. I felt strange thinking that the routine I&#8217;ve been used to for the last 9+ months is going to change completely. I felt especially strange as I cleared out my desk this afternoon and prepared to say bye to my colleagues.</span>  <span style="font-family:verdana;"></p>
<p>Everyone wished me luck as I left and several people (mostly those I partied/hung out with) said they would miss me! I met a lot of amazing people and made quite a few friends while I was there and I&#8217;ll certainly miss them!</span>  <span style="font-family:verdana;"></p>
<p>I wonder if I&#8217;m going to feel this way every time I&#8217;m on an out of town engagement for an extended period of time. I pretty much lived there for almost a year and I know how sad I felt when I left Sri Lanka and Sweden after only 6 months!</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve always been someone who develops friendships quickly, so maybe this will be recurring as I travel. My next project will be local unfortunately, but more on that later&#8230;</span></span></p>
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		<title>Networking Gone Terribly Wrong</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Feb 2008 14:24:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ian Selvarajah</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Air Canada Maple Leaf Lounge photo from Air CanadaAirport lounges are a great place to network as you meet lots of business travelers. However, I certainly wasn&#8217;t interested in THIS type of networking!!</p>
<p>A couple of weeks ago, I was sitting in the Air Canada lounge in the Toronto airport waiting for my flight home to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><center><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://bp2.blogger.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/R7GrimJNiBI/AAAAAAAAADg/kKWm_itbiro/s1600-h/MapleLeafLounge.jpe"><img style="cursor: pointer;" src="http://bp2.blogger.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/R7GrimJNiBI/AAAAAAAAADg/kKWm_itbiro/s320/MapleLeafLounge.jpe" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5166098858413754386" border="0" /></a><br /><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;">Air Canada Maple Leaf Lounge photo from <a href="http://www.aircanada.com/">Air Canada</a></span></center><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">Airport lounges are a great place to network as you meet lots of business travelers. However, I certainly wasn&#8217;t interested in THIS type of networking!!</span></p>
<p></span><span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"  >A couple of weeks ago, I was sitting in the </span><span style="font-size:85%;"><a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://www.aircanada.com/en/travelinfo/airport/maplelounges/">Air Canada lounge</a></span><span style="font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;"> in the Toronto airport waiting for my flight home to Montreal. As I sat down, an older gentleman sitting across from me started talking to me. He seemed to be a nice guy, so we had the regular small talk of:</span></span> </span><span style="font-style: italic;font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"  >Where are you going? What do you do?</span><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;"> etc. He told me that he worked for a large oil and gas firm. Sure enough, always keeping my eyes out for a sale/contact, I asked if his firm used SAP. They did!</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:verdana;">We spoke a bit more and as usual, my trip to Sri Lanka came up. It&#8217;s usually the direct comparison I offer between doing meaningful work and corporate work. Anyhow, we exchanged business cards and I mentioned that if they ever needed SAP work, that&#8217;s what we do, so to keep in touch!</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:verdana;">Exactly a week later, I received the following email from said gentleman:</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 255);font-family:verdana;" >[my thoughts as I read the email]</span></p>
<blockquote><p><span style="font-style: italic;font-family:verdana;" >Hi Ian</span></p>
<p><span style="font-style: italic;font-family:verdana;" >I just wanted to tell you that it was very nice meeting you in the Maple Leaf Lounge at Air Canada in Toronto last week.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 255);font-family:verdana;" >[Cool, it was nice meeting him as well! Nice guy...]</span><br /><span style="font-style: italic;font-family:verdana;" >You were very charming and interesting.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 255);font-family:verdana;" >["<span style="font-style: italic;">Charming</span>"? ...Strange coming from a guy, but...alright?]</span><br /><span style="font-style: italic;font-family:verdana;" >Your stories on rebuilding the Church was heartwarming.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 255);font-family:verdana;" >["<span style="font-style: italic;">Heartwarming</span>"? I guess?]</span><br /><span style="font-style: italic;font-family:verdana;" >I was wondering if you had any pictures of yourself to send me.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 255);font-family:verdana;" >[WTF!?!!?? Why?!!? Maybe he forgot what I looked like?]</span><br /><span style="font-style: italic;font-family:verdana;" >I would luv to invite you down to my home in Barbados, West Indies for a vacation if you wish.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 255);font-family:verdana;" >[WTF!?!!?? <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chris_Tucker">Awwww…HELLLL NAWWW</a>! NO way...]</span><br /><span style="font-style: italic;font-family:verdana;" >Please keep in touch</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 255);font-family:verdana;" >[Yeeeeaaah, probably not...did I come across as being gay? I wasn't wearing my pink shirt?]</span></p></blockquote>
<p><span style="font-family:verdana;">I was so stunned by the email, that, while still looking at my screen, I tapped my colleague on the shoulder, pointed at my screen and said: <span style="font-style: italic;">&#8220;Read that!! Is it just me or does that sound gay!?!&#8221;</span> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:verdana;">Some funny comments from my friends:</span><br /><span style="font-style: italic;font-family:verdana;" >&#8220;&#8230;so? Did you send him pictures?&#8221;</span><br /><span style="font-style: italic;font-family:verdana;" >&#8220;Yeah, using the word &#8216;luv&#8217; is about as telling as a rainbow tattoo on the small of your back&#8230;&#8221;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:verdana;">I was going to title this post <span style="font-style: italic;">&#8220;Do I Look Gay?&#8221;</span> but I realized that would have killed the punchline. Is there any remote chance I&#8217;ve misconstrued this and he was just trying to be friendly?? Before you ask, no I did not email him back&#8230;I&#8217;ll probably just leave it at that.</span></span></p>
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		<title>Eurotrip 2007 Starts Shortly</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Oct 2007 00:21:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ian Selvarajah</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m finally taking a vacation!!   I&#8217;m heading over to Edinburgh for my godson Thomas&#8216; first birthday and I&#8217;m very excited to spend time with him again! I&#8217;m going to be in Edinburgh from the 12th until the 28th and I&#8217;m going to see my friends in Stockholm from the 17th-22nd. I&#8217;m still debating [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family: verdana;">I&#8217;m finally taking a vacation!! <img src='http://ianselvarajah.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  I&#8217;m heading over to Edinburgh for my godson <a href="http://the1truecoolguy.blogspot.com/2006/10/thomas-ragavan-misha-eddleston.html">Thomas</a>&#8216; first birthday and I&#8217;m very excited to spend time with him again! I&#8217;m going to be in Edinburgh from the 12th until the 28th and I&#8217;m going to see my friends in Stockholm from the 17th-22nd. I&#8217;m still debating if I&#8217;m going to do Paris from the 23rd-25th, but I&#8217;m hoping to go there as well. Funny thing is that prior to leaving on this trip, several people have said: &#8220;<span style="font-style: italic;">Behave.</span>&#8221; to me. Ha ha ha Not sure what they mean by that exactly&#8230;oh wait, maybe I do. <img src='http://ianselvarajah.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' /> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana;">If anyone reading this is in any of those cities, please shoot me a quick email and maybe we could meet up as I always enjoy meeting new people! I&#8217;m hoping to catch </span><a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://pakayas.blogspot.com/">Darwin</a><span style="font-family: verdana;"> over in Glasgow. If we can work that out, I&#8217;m sure that should be quite an interesting experience! I might also be meeting one of my little sisters&#8217; substitute teachers who&#8217;s studying in Edinburgh, so hopefully I&#8217;ll be able to meet some people closer to my age as well! <img src='http://ianselvarajah.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana;">I&#8217;m currently sitting in the <a href="http://www.pitairport.com/">Pittsburgh airport</a> and the flight to <a href="http://www.newarkairport.com/">Newark</a> has been delayed by over 3 hours now (it was supposed to leave @ 17:40). I had already been warned about crazy delays getting in and out of Newark, so I was somewhat prepared for this. The bright side, is that apparently the flight from Newark to <a href="http://www.edinburghairport.com/">Edinburgh</a> is late as well, so I&#8217;m praying that I&#8217;ll be able to make the Edinburgh flight. Otherwise, I&#8217;ll be spending the night in NYC&#8230;wish me luck!!</span><br /></span></p>
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